Why do people who supposedly love you say hurtful things?
My ex said some really mean things to me during an argument. Often calling me derogatory names. Also went as far as to say that I was using my bros death for my own gain....it hurt me really bad. I thought that she loved me. I knew she was really mad....but she says some mean things that I just can't forget. I am level headed during arguments. I don't like to make low blows, so to speak. She can't seem to help herself. For those of you who have blow up easily, can you offer any insight. I don't think she realizes how much her words hurt. She seems to try and justify it by saying she was mad and that is how she expresses herself...really?
Edit: I know....I am done. I just feel betrayed. I can't believe there was no apology for saying that about my brother. At first I would say...she was just mad, but you know what....that is NO excuse. I am sorry...how sad. BTW, there was no cheating in this relationship, and no dishonesty.