Why do people who you trusted with your life hurt you by stop talking to you and not explaining what you did wrong?
6 Answers to "Why do people who you trusted with your life hurt you by stop talking to you and not explaining what you did wrong?"
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Simply put...because people are ******** (parden my language). They simply don't care...
The way I see it there is 95% absolute ******** in the world and only 5% nice caring people. To be a nice person is rare these days. And it is really sad.Like (4)
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TeeheeLike (1)
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Too many wankers out there. Sorry. Xx
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You probably do not have the courage, or perhaps protect yourself.
Try to do an analysis of what happened and see if maybe those people decision was taken in order to protect yourself.Like (1)
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Because they are causing you and others immeasurable suffering and no amount of attempting to explain that gets through so you give up when you realize that you cannot change them. You get out of the line of fire. If their personalities have become warped and abusive but they can't see it, you leave. If they scapegoat and blame everybody else for their problems but won't take advice even when they asked for it, you are wasting your time and energy. Sometimes they are drowning in their bad decisions and take you down with them if you try to help.
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i am thinking of my ex wife
I agree with oralservant that maybe I missed the signs. I do know I was empowered to be the "rescuer" to her drama
but the loneliness of (in my case a false accusation of child sex abuse) of it was the worst part. There is no Oprah for men. There are groups like AA where you can hear ordinary ppl tell how they overcame their problems. To non AA ppl I found this plavce a lot better than the RCC where my spiritual sense was born btw.
the fact that they AREN'T talking to you empowers them and you know and they know it hurts you
so they are obviously doing it to punish you
until you have the opportunity to get that person out of your life..erase them..move on..find things to do to replace whatever you did with them...move on..make friends..volunteerLike (1)
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Posted by oralservant Jul 1st, 2012 at 1:11PM
Wow- heavy. There are many scenarios that could end this way. 1) The other person might not have been honest and up front with you in the first place, misleading you to believe they were trustworthy. Then they move on later without a word. 2) They may have been sincere at first, but as things cooled, they still cared for you, but wanted to go. They might not have the courage (although they will call it heart) to tell you, fearing your subsequent anger or emotional collapse (that hurts). 3) Or, in their eyes, you really did something wrong and don't want you to prove them wrong. Perhaps, they use it as an excuse to walk away, as an extension of scenario's #1 and #2. I'm sure there are other scenarios too.
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