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m2extreme m2extreme 31-35, F 16 Answers May 26, 2011

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So many reasons-<br />
1. Guilt and/or shame- don't want to hurt or bother the other person<br />
2. Fear<br />
3. Depression makes people not think clearly<br />
4. Hard to be around people<br />
5. Too many other reasons.<br />
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Usually it isn't intentional but at times it can be. For me, a lot of it is shame and not wanting to burden others. Plus I feel like no one cares so why bother opening my mouth.

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I push people when I am feeling down because I dont want people to see my weaknesses, my tears and my anguish. I feel that it can be judged and I feel a little crazy on the inside, like not in control of my emotions. I dont like it, so how can someone else like me when im like this. I judge myself, so how can others whom I built this trust with, not judge me the same. Ive seen the judgement come out already in other instances, but them i find myself suffering in silence...

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Because a person fels that you don't have any energy to deal with people and that you can only deal with yourself. That is why I push people way when I am depressed. I have a lack of energy to be around people when i am depressed. People should just let me be and let me sleep it off or work it off :-)

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I have finally learned this...just let them be....they always bounce back.

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For me, it's because I don't want to bring my friends down along with me. Why should I ruin their happiness just because I can't be happy?

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you ever wonder tho if your concept of what makes them happy is wrong? I dunno...just found the depressive in my life likes to tell me when and where I was happy...lol without consulting with me first if he's accurate.

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I don't know, most of the time I don't even realize I am doing it.

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Because they think they don't deserve them, and that they are only a burden to them.

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Because they feel worthless, and don't want to ruin their partners lies either. The other thing is sometimes it is a desperate plea for help.

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I'm depressed right now, and I push people away because it is embarrassing to admit that I am depressed. I don't want to be a burden. So I belong to EP, here I can talk without feling ashamed!!! I am about to loose my boyfriend because he feels like he failed because he couldn't help me, he feels it's his fault, so I try not to spend too much time with him so I can act OK when he sees me! I've been depressed for 6 months and stopped answering the phone to my parents and sister because I knew they would figure it out, I "came out" to them on Tuesday, 6 months too late!!!

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I don't know but if you find out please tell me. rdcou812@juno.com, Rob

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They feel like they bring others down.

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Its because they want loneliness and its the best medicine to beat depression as u will come out of many new ways by urself..

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People with depression tend to beat up on themselves and not do the right things to get out of the depression. I should know.

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No one wants to see you in your "Jammies"..now do they??

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