Why do significant others twist your complaints/concerns into something that is wrong with you and not them?
It seems that whenever I bring up something with my boyfriend, something I am concerned about or something I want him to do or not do, he turns it around and makes it my fault. For example: I'd like him to be more romantic and sweet with me. He used to be in the beginning of our relationship, and it's only been a year and a half. I like to hear love-y things and I like to have those love-y moments when you're just content to hold and look at each other. He says that he would be sweeter with me if I helped him around his (not ours) house more (I am over there a lot, and I do help out with cleaning and picking up). Now I feel like there's something wrong with me, something I'm not doing, so that I don't deserve the love and affection I want.