Atleast he has a job and doesnt take money from her
I understand u want the best for your daughter but why dont u give this young man a chance? Spend some time with him. Hes still in school and trying to make some money. Doesnt matter who got him the job. If hes a lazyass he wouldnt even want to work to begin with.
Sounds like shes young and still figuring stuff out. Just please.. If she comes to you and wants to marry one of these guys, tell her to travel for a year and if she comes back and still wants to she will have your blessing. My world was so small when I was that age, I wasn't aware of all there is to experience out there in the big wide world.
So if 'hypothetically' I had money, some of the highest grades in the country, was decent looking, with highly respected and intelligent parents; when could I expect your daughter?
If their happy then that's a plus. Sounds like your not happy with their choices?
Now i understand,sorry. Your a caring father,how old is your daughter, (if you don't me asking)?
You will have trust her,i'm sure she will be fine and your there if she needs you. But she will go to her friends that's normal.
It's a tough time being 20 especially these days.
We all handle them differently. Good luck with your daughter.
Because they can. It's their choice, no ones else.
None of us knows what makes someone attracted to anyone else.
Sometimes lack of self-esteem plays a role in the choices we make too.
Probably the best idea to just let them live their lives. If they made bad choices, hopefully they'll learn from them as they mature.
They're just attracted to the "bad boys". It happens so often to young girls. If your daughter in underage and you can put a stop her being with him. Otherwise, she might just have to learn for herself that the attraction with bsf boys is really too much drama. Sadly, a lot of grown women don't even realize that.
....and why do some reproduce with them and contaminate their gene-pool??????
opposites attract? :D choosing a partner who is a notch or two lower on the totem pole gives them a psychological edge to feel safe and in control
i guess we buried the bar on this one lol!
Maybe you should rethink the smart part.
I know, Did not mean anything by it. But maybe there is something about that person you can not see!