Why do smart and pretty girls pick the boyfriends they do?
My daughter (and my niece) who I both think are beautiful., and are at least good looking (others tell me my daughter is gorgeous), both pick boys who others (male and female) tell me are...well... ugly! He has a lousy job (its a go nowhere job at a grocery store), isn't smart (he tried college, and I saw some of his test grades. 40/100), his parents are possible the stupidest people I've even met! I know she has low self-esteem (which I work hard at rebuilding). I think his only redeeming quality is; he isn't in a gang, not on drugs and he isn't a criminal. Those just aren't very high goals.