Why do some people always choose to have a bad day? Argh!

Asked By: shoegirl1972 36-40 1 year ago

There is this guy at work that always has a bad day! I always choose to have an awesome day no matter what happens! What do you think? Is he just not getting enough attention?

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Posted by SecretBrokenDoll May 18th, 2012 at 9:01AM

Some enjoy wallowing in their own misery. And some have bad days. Sometimes it how you deal with what comes at you. Other time it's how long you have to be buried under the pile of rocks that just fell on your head.

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Reply by shoegirl1972 May 18th, 2012 at 9:14AM

You're right! I think this one is a wallower! I notice he gets a ton of attention by doing this. Maybe the attention fills a void for him.
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Reply by SecretBrokenDoll May 18th, 2012 at 9:18AM

Problem is, people tire quickly of the wallowers. He's looking for a temporary fix and needs to find another way to fill that void or he'll remain lonely.
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Posted by Wolftraxxx1973 May 19th, 2012 at 11:17PM

Every day you wake up is a good day and has potential to be the best of you're life, makes no sence to me to allow ones self to stay in a funk

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Posted by rottenrobi May 19th, 2012 at 11:11PM

I have a "my cup is always half empty" for a husband, and it's a drag. He can find negative in puppies lying on a down comforter with flowers all around, you know? It's crazy. It's something that they inherit or witness too much of, and take it on. I hate it.

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Posted by Babydoll42 May 18th, 2012 at 9:14AM

Same here...I am going to have a great day...I've already decided...

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Posted by Addictedtoshit May 18th, 2012 at 9:08AM

Perhaps they do not believe they have the power to make the choice.

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Posted by Whateverrrrr May 18th, 2012 at 9:05AM

It is in their genes or behaviour.

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Posted by thinkandfeel May 18th, 2012 at 9:02AM

i wish that actually were a matter of choice. but it isn't. at least not for me and maybe for the guy at your work.

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Reply by shoegirl1972 May 18th, 2012 at 9:12AM

If you cannot have a good day seems like you might want to see a counselor or psychaitrist. I do and I can now choose to have awesome days and I do.
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