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I do my makeup/hair every day, I dress nice, I try to be friendly to everyone. But I've been single for almost my whole life. (I dated a guy for 4 months last year, and one other for about a month) What am I doing wrong?
LadyC93 LadyC93 18-21, F 20 Answers Jul 31, 2012

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some people try to hard, focus on the wrong people. they say you quit looking and it finds you, I used to stress EVERY day about finding someone but now I don't. I'm just concentrating on improving my social skills, working out, school, then a job, then my own place, better car and lots of money and then well see who the ladies like ;)

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coz they will get the best ones i guess

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I don't know. But I'm one of them. I think maybe some people just aren't meant to find love :(

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Different people look for different things

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My issue is I do not have enough to date anyone. I been single all my life also. The best of luck to both of us.

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Nothing; it's fate/karma or whatever other word you might substitute.

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ITS CALLED REJECTION ALONG WITH LACK OF CONFIDENCE B ING SHY AND FEELING REALLY SHY AND NOT KNOWING WHAT TO SAY PLUS NOT KNOWING IF THAT SOMEONE IS WITH SOMEBODY ALREADY OR NOT KNOWING IF THEIR MARRIED ALREADY THOSE R THE REASONS I HAVE A HARD TIME GETTING A NEW GF I VE HAD GIRLFRIENDS B4 BUT I VE ALWAYS LET THEM COME TO ME CAUSE I M VERY TIMID OF PPL I DON T KNOW ESPECIALLY GIRLS AND EVEN MORE AROUND GIRLS I LIKE AND THE ONLY REASON I M NOT WITH ANY ONE NOW IS CAUSE I MOVED SO OFTEN I HAVEN T REALLY HAD TIME TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP THE LONGEST I VE BEEN WITH ANYONE WAS 2 YEARS 6 MONTHS AND 11 DAYS I LOVED HER SO MUCH I COUNTED EVERY DAY WE SPENT WITH OTHER AND WHEN SHE AND I MOVED AWAY FROM EACH OTHER I WAS HEART BROKEN BUT I VE NEVER BROKE UP WITH ANY GIRLFRIEND I VE EVER HAD WE JUST GOT SEPERATED FROM EACH OTHER BUT NOW I HAVEN T MOVED ANYMORE I FINALY HAVE A PLACE WHERE I CAN FINALY QUIT MOVING :)

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I can't even read this.. Why did you do all caps?

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I am one of those people....can't figure it out either? HELP!

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:/ hopefully this changes soon

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whole life - hahahaha ------------ you're either 1) too good looking - lots of guys think you're taken and / or you will turn them down or 2) unattractive

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I'm not ugly. I'm just going by what I've been told.

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then you're too cute. guys are afraid to approach you.

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What can I do to make them less afraid? Without skipping the makeup...

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You tell me what you do when you are with someone and I'll tell you why you're single. Are you making it too easy for a guy to get with you? Are you being boring? All these things are contributing factors. I'd say approach every person you're attracted to, and eventually you'll find someone who'll say yes.

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Maybe I am boring.. I'm definitely not easy, though.

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You're still young honey age will slow it down a bit...In my case damn near stopped..Men my age seem to want girls your age ..

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I am in the same boat (i am male) I dress nice, I workout 4-6 days a week, I have a good job, I dress nice, WTF<br />
It helps to talk though if you'd like

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Sounds good to me :)

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I don't know... maybe you're not trying to enjoy your time alone?

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i've set the bar way to high after the last shamozzle.. prolly too high but meh. if shes out there , she gunna be perfect :)

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And you've had such a loooooong life too.

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Thank you, this answer is sooooooo helpful -_-

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Sorry. I guess what I was trying to say is that you are still very young and it's normal to have only had a couple of short relationships.

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You're right. I wish I wasn't so impatient.

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Its called being shy for me. Maybe you're just tooooo hot to approach? :) idk i would ask the same thing for myself so yeah....

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Good luck to us both, in that case! :)

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Nothing. You can't expect to bounce from guy to guy :/

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I definitely don't want to do that, but I think a year in between is plenty of time

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I don't think there is a set period between. Just be patient..

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