There is a difference between making friends and attracting attention. Time usually sorts that out.
They can be charming, at first, then you're caught in their self absorbed, selfish and shallow web.
Yep, I caught up in a web right now! :)
But those friendships ba<x>sed on the diffidence of others won't last, people do notice the selfishness after a while.
I've seen that happen, you know people remember when they've been let down.
Doesn't make any sense to me.
Selfish people think they are better/more important then others, they exude a confidence that tells people "I am awesome". People get curious about how that person is so awesome, and they want to be awesome too, so they try and get close to that person. The selfish person sees a less confident person wanting to get close to them, and sees how that friendship would benefit them. They become friends.
Thats a question nive askrd myself,because they are so self absorbed they know themselves too well and develop charasmatic,like power which can charm you i think its called psycophant
Because people are drawn to those who are frank and honest, not at all drawn to proper, prudish, perfection, (it's commin knowledge that perfection does not exist)