Resolved Question

I'm a woman and if I ever act like that I want to be shot on the spot.

...but really how does someone turn so selfish, hostile and ugly over a ceremony that's suppossed to represent the opposite?

...and how does anyone stick around knowing the days are counting down before they agree to stick with that person forever?

I think brides that are uncompromising and have to have everything perfect, ones who can't understand that not everything goes according to plan, that sometimes you need to compromise and prioritize--everything cannot be equally important. They thought about the wedding too long like since age 5 and they aren't realistic. They think, "this person is supposed to act this way, that one that way, this business/company should do this and be this way..." they are control freaks that can't stand that everyone isn't like they pictures and that they are not the queen of the world--the world isn't going to stop for them.