Nope. I feel the same, all cringey. I'd rather a guy showed me how he feels if ya get what I mean
It depends what kind of relationships you have had in the past. If you are called names like *******, *****, babbling moron by your spouse most days then a little romance would be lovely. I used to like bad boys too but have spent too many years being criticized, being treated worse than a dog, and called every name in the book. Being around a burping drunk whos idea of romance is buuurp, hey *****, wanna suck my ****, I love you. So this is the opposite of these romantic guys.
What sort of verbal things are you talking about?
No a turn off... but most are just full of ****!
Yes, really...If I think your only saying thinks you think I want to hear; I stop listening.