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Why do way older guys try to talk to teenages and when the teenager say no the older man still tries to talk to them?

I am being presue by a 45 years old man at home. He lives in my neighborhood and I keep telling him no, He keeps on trying. He had tried giving me flowers and putting little notes on my window. He had asked me to go out on little dates and stuff. Im 18 but thats a little old for me.

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    dskdw25q9n - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by dskdw25q9n Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:14AM

    I am an older guy who cannot relate to that. If a teenager approaches me and asks advice about going to college, careers, or how to buy a car, then I am receptive to such conversations. But otherwise, I don't mingle with them.

    I have suffered the nuisance of kids coming to my house, asking me to fix their bicycles, or wanting to talk to me because their parents neglect them. My usual response is, "There are no children at my house for you to play with. You don't belong here."

    As for this 45-year-old man, you may wish to visit the court clerk's office at the courthouse and ask to complete the form that will petition the court to Order this man to stay away from you. It is just a simple form. Or as a preamble to that, send him a certified letter, with his signature required for delivery, that demands he cease and desist; and demands that he stay away from your property or risks arrest for trespassing and so forth.

    That 45-year-old man is a fool.

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  1. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:20AM

    That is the way that it needs to be. I am all cool with older people that may need help or that like to tell stories or something. I think older people are so awesome they have see this world change for the better ad the worse. They are most respectful to me and thats the way I like it. Thanks for the advice.

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  2. dskdw25q9n - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by dskdw25q9n Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:29AM

    You are welcome. I don't know what state or jurisdiction that you live in, or whether you even live in the USA; but you need to enlighten yourself to how legal process works in your jurisdiction for trespassing, harassment, stalking, restraining orders. etc. I recommend you pursue civil remedies, rather than criminal charges, if you feel that having a judge yell at him will suffice. But this guy's behavior has got to stop. Unless he is a multimillionaire, then he should know damn well that no woman of your age will have any interest in a man who is his age. Be sure to save all evidence because if this matter goes to court, the he will deny everything. The burden upon you is to prove it. That means you need evidence and witnesses.

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10 Answers to "Why do way older guys try to talk to teenages and when the teenager say no the older man still tries to talk to them?"

  1. monocerus - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by monocerus Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:06AM

    Get blunt and rude with him maybe, doesnt sound like gets the picture

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  2. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:08AM

    i have. I have called the police and they said they could not do anything because he is not threating my life or causing harm.

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  3. monocerus - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by monocerus Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:09AM

    mmm, thats crap then hey, tell ur pares? kick him in the nuts? dunno

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  4. Christina33s - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Christina33s Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:07AM

    He'sa pervert .....

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  5. AngieloveLee1985 - 26-30 years old

    Posted by AngieloveLee1985 Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:05AM

    he is a wulf! your are the lambie..stay away from him

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  6. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:08AM

    I dont go around him. I try to stay in the house but I hve to do thinkg during the day.

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  7. Delilah5 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Delilah5 Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:21AM

    "Way older guys" that talk to teenagers are disgusting dogs. They think that they are smarter than you and can talk you into doing what they want. Prove them wrong. I see them as pedophiles. RUN away.

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  8. tomintexas - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by tomintexas Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:31AM

    That's rather harsh. If the girl is 18, anything between the 2 consenting adults isn't bad just because you don't approve.

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  9. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 12th, 2012 at 1:01PM

    but im not consenting anyhting. I am in love with a man my age and just him. I dont look down on woman in there 20s looking for men in there 50s. That's there lifestyle but thats not something I want.

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  10. canoethenhike - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by canoethenhike Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:09AM

    Next time he is at your window hit him on the head with something. You already told him no and that should be enough reason to stop right there. he sounds like he is on his way to being one of those old creepy guys. i assume he wants a trophy wife, and he will find several willing else where

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  11. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:14AM

    i can't do that he is fragile and I can go to prison for manslaughter. He hasn't touch me yet.

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  12. crabby24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by crabby24 Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:09AM

    I think it's creepy and you be careful,if it bothers you talk to your parents,because it can turn into stalking or worse.

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  13. brokenalways - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by brokenalways Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:07AM

    Cause their pervs who can't get girls their own age. :)

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  14. tomintexas - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by tomintexas Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:32AM

    Pervs? It's very well known that many older guys are attracted to younger women. They're actually not trying to find girls their age.

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  15. AaronSousuke - 18-21 years old

    Posted by AaronSousuke Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:05AM

    Stubborn.

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  16. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 2nd, 2012 at 8:08AM

    he really is.

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  17. mrssgt - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by mrssgt Nov 2nd, 2012 at 10:16AM

    what if this is your only offer in life, & you pass it up??

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  18. Teyiah - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Teyiah Nov 12th, 2012 at 1:00PM

    what do you mean by that?

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