Everyone doesn't "always" do that, especially once they become mature emotionally.
Because our brain does not know any better. We take those loving us for granted and always want what we don't have. Is that what one calls human nature? I hope not.
the old push pull. For every action, there is an opposite and equal reaction.
so love hard, you will be pushed away.
be aloof and the vacuum is filled by the love.
unhealthy-- science shouldn't guide love....so lower the sights and get that one that will blend with you. that's what I am trying to do. so many factors involved. finances, faith, flirting....hard to get a complete package and hard to be a complete package.
hope springs eternal
its not love... its just that they're always on our mind... making us wonder why we aren't good enough for they're attention... we're made to please...
humph. why do we do this. so stupid! but then i ignore the real world (which is great) for EP (which is a bit iffy). Maybe we like pain/thrills/danger...
Not in my experience.
I love the people who love and care about me.
I'm always trying to fix my damaged parents through my current relationship. So I tolerate a lot of bs, like I did as a child.
Let me just say, it doesn't ever work, and I didn't even know that I was doing it. Yes, being ignored sucks, but I was used to it. It really didn't even feel that bad. Now I know better.