Sometimes holding to the pass helps us to move towards our future. Repressing memory can lead to subsequent health issues if they are related to a traumatic experience. Sometimes we hold to the pass as a banner to express to others the reason we are the way we are. We have become experts at deceiving ourselves to believe we are damaged goods. However our past ... whether negative or positive shapes apart of our personalities, or who we've become. But who we desire to be is not indicative to what our past was. we all can change. It's about finding a purpose or meaning in everything you don't understand ... and then find a reason to do something that will bring about some healing to someone else. We all can learn from each other. God fixed it that way.
We generaly hold on to memories that involve emotion. Non emotion events are probably forgotten. A friends loyalty or the lack of it are never forgotten.
Because memories stay with you forever! Good&Bad
is hadr to forget sometimes
The past is what has happened but it can also make a huge difference to how your future is. It never goes away and can never be forgotten but it can be put to the wayside and seen as a way of coaching yourself for a steady life the way you want it to go.
as we cant get over it