It worth taking the risk.
no rewards without risks
having said that it sucks to get burned :/
Its just how we are wired, chemicals, hormones. Society really encourages "pairing" too. Some people seek it for the hurt because thats what they feel they deserve. Some poeple want to hurt someone because they were hurt. But honestly, most people have no clue wtf they want at all, they just know they don't wanna be alone and/or feel undesirable. Generaly it's all about what you're predisposed to that leads to such patterns.
because we wanted to be loved,,
and we're craving for it,,
it might hurt us if they didn't love as back or
there is a thought inside our head that scares us.
like the question,
what if that person leave??
Because to Love is to Live and without Love in Your Life your not Living but simply Alive and Breathing...
Cause it's totally worth it!!!!
Everyone is talikng about love, love is the same as God a long lost matter that has died a billion death and resurrected as leader of Religion and is the centres of conflict in every sense ,
pair bond or gtfo
I'm sorry if the answer sounded like it was aimed at you. I meant the answer is a function of evolutionary psychology.
Do you think a change of thinking might change it?
So living in fear?
Hmm..interesting. "Why do we seek love, if all it might end up doing is hurt us"
I have a question?
What led you to ask your question?
Okay no worries.