coz them tiet knickers slows the blood flow
As a CD also, I find that the feminine side that comes when dressed does have a calming effect. Not that all females are gentle - some can be awful bossy and tyrannical - but the majority do have a gentler side and it is this within our male side that reduces the stress.
Perhaps you are addressing the problem ;)
I don't know what response you expected here........I could make up something if you want but ...how about... because you like it? Everybody feels better when they're doing what they like - there's nothing mysterious about it.
Because of the silk