For those of us who don't like to lose control in real life it can be somewhat thrilling to be dominated in the bedroom. Especially when you trust the man you are with.
It's also nice to be able to take charge sometimes too.
I write to block out my pain.
Its the way we were bred to be. The cave woman would mate with the male that brought home the most chow. He was the leader of hunt or the most prolific hunter. So she would submit to his desires so she would have enough food for her children. and that was reinforced on each generation. Nothing wrong with it. it is the way it is. Dont mistake submissive with dumb or door mat. There are lots of smart subs, they are the sexiest ones of all.
That's just kinda animal instinct. Males are dominate and females let them dominate. i Honestly like that. less work for me to do. lol jk
are u bi?
wait are you talking sexually or just behavior in general? in general, i'm not like that. i'm very opinionated and very stubborn. if i don't like something i'll let you know.
i don;t like it when women are in your face about stuff thouugh. i mean they're real *******. so i think you might want it in the middle or equal power. I'm the way i am but I'm lady like about it. women should try to keep things classy
not over powering but not scared to do or say what they want with you dear
Not always there are lots of species that are female dominant. Lionesses hunt, female insects and arachnids are larger than the males and they also eat them after mating.
We're primates so you can really only compare us to primates. Also just because the lioness hunts doesn't mean she is dominant. She provides the food.
Because their trained to be submissive from birth. Just watch a Barbie commercial.
Well personally, I seem to be turned on by whatever turns the other person on. Or, I get turned on by someone else being turned on. So that can go alot of ways. Being submissive in and of itself isnt that big of a deal for me... unless its a big deal to whoever I'm going to be bumping uglies with. O:
well, from a male POV sex is all about domination so from the female POV being dominated must be hardwired in to be a turn on for them hence the submissiveness. Persuading them to wear the Princess Leia costume at the same time is more difficult but well worth the effort.
Yes, so long as I get to be the wookie :)
Either is fine, whatever rocks your boat (or hers) init.
It is one view - that power sharing relationships can be alluring to some of us, but oh please.........don't speak for the other 3.4 billion males on the planet, "sex is all about domination"? Did you mean the domination by women through the seduction of men by using their feminine wiles? ;-)
don't blame me, blame Freud...
some are wired that,personaly,I like it both ways,sub and dom,but cant find either to play
That's their gig- have @ it
I don't know Ma'am. I thought it was the other way around.
you Must be talkin bout yur own age group??!
That is just a ploy. Wait until you get married, then they will really let you know what's on their minds. LOL
Their are many women who tend to be bossy. Many become that way after marriage.
Even bossy women are not necessarily sexual dommes. IPF, I hope you'll get more in touch with your inner guy, because it'll be a lot easier to find a woman that way.
Depends on the woman.
I think most women in general who think they want a submissive partner, tend to lose respect for them after awhile. After that they lose interest in them.
My husband wants one of those so let him know when you find one
I like being able to let go and enjoy. To give myself completely.
Mmm...because it's easy, maybe? Girls are told they are supposed to be the more "timid", "weaker" sex as children and on. It could be because it's a habit to feel that way...or think you are supposed to feel that way.<br />
Also....well... personally...hah! I think being submissive is much more beautiful...or attractive. But...perhaps that's why I prefer domination...because I can see the other person like that...ah whatever.<br />
Personally, I much prefer the moments when I'm in control because I feel like I can make it more fun for us, and I feel like I'm in charge of the surprises. And the one guy in my past that allowed me to do whatever I wanted...oh my god. I loved him to death.<br />
I worry about it though...because I'm not just "dominant occasionally". So I've tried to subdue it before, but the only thing I really succeed in is making myself frustrated. haha!<br />
Being a submissive guy though...is rare, and sexy, imo. I don't think it'll be an issue for you. ;) There may not be tons of dominant women...but they exist.