Why do women ask trick questions:does this makes me look fat? fellas what would you say? the truth or the lie.. be smart
i ask this cause women don't like lies but if we tell the truth they will kill us but if we lie we live LOL so what do they want the truth or the lie?.......now if we lie don't complain LOL
15 Answers to "Why do women ask trick questions:does this makes me look fat? fellas what would you say? the truth or the lie.. be smart"
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It is true that women don't like lies but we do like gentle reassurance that we look good.
I don't ask my husband often if something makes me look fat. I have a healthy self-esteem. I believe many women are looking for that boost. It stems from early childhood when little girls are dressed up and told that they look pretty in whatever it is that they are wearing. As adults, women are just looking for that reassurance that they look good in the outfit. On the few times that I have asked my husband if I look good in something, it is because I want a true and honest assessment. It is normally because I might be wearing something (a style) that I normally don't wear and feel self-conscious about it.
Best way to answer it is to do something that most people frown upon: Ask a question to answer a question. Ask her how she feels or what is it that makes her ask that question. She will tell you what it is that is bothering her. If a pair of white pants makes her butt look big (don't worry white makes everybody's butt look big, but don't tell her that or you might get slapped), tell her she looks good and suggest maybe a long shirt (to cover her butt) or scarf will help her feel better about herself in the outfit. If she really looks bad in the outfit tell her that you think there is something else that will flatter her better than what she is wearing and that you will help her (find colors that she likes, not styles) she will appreciate your effort and most likely leave you alone and call a girlfriend to go shopping with her.Like (3)
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so.....so you saying i gotta go broke LOL?
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if complimenting costs hen yes but im sure it doesn't and women do have there own money too :)Like (1)
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Just give an honest answer,No they don't make you look fat. They're just the wrong size.
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GOOD ONE LOL
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i say it how i see it,if she asks the question,she should be women enought to take the ans weather good or bad
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yess thats right
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The smart answer is ..."not to me"
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lol
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just tell them you look as you feel
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nice
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Okay, first of all, women shouldn't be asking their men this question. Unless your man is actually interested in your daily weight crisis, just leave him out of it. He loves you for you, if you looked fat and he still loves you then it doesn't really matter does it? If you got fat and you love yourself less, then you don't really need someone else to tell you do you? (btw in the latter case, you would have to work it off!)
Now men, your ladies shouldn't be asking you this -.- But in the likely chance that they do. BE SMART. I don't know what your woman is like, but if she's chill and you guys have that relationship, then share the truth. And my homosexual male friends who just seem to understand style better than my heterosexual male friends are very honest. Cuz they actually know what they're talking about (Stripes on an pear? Nuh uh! Or whatever, i have no idea what i'm talking about lol).
And if you don't know how to answer, then take the safe road "babe you look amazing, I love you." hug and a kiss, disaster AVERTED!Like (2)
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yes what right do they have to ask us this worrible....worrible question.....how dare they LOL
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well do you ask them "babe how which gun should i use in cod?" there are stuff we don't HAVE TO share with our others. i mean this doesn't apply to everyone XD my bf and i dont give a **** so we share everything lol
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It's not a trick question. If a women is getting upset with your answer, you simply need to beat her to the punch and give her a image boost by telling her how nice she looks more often or before she has time to ask the question.
"Didn't I just tell you how nice you looked."Like (2)
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it's a trick lol
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you look good to me no matter what you wear,, Are you kidding you look great,,
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good one....good one...yeah go with that LOL
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I wouldn't date a woman with a lack of self-confidence. Doesn't make for a healthy relationship. Good luck :)
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damn
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Trick questions never work on me nor does reverse psychology as for why they do it its just they way of testing their control over you...
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thats true they love control
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I'd probably say you always look fat, it doesn't matter what you where, hence, I'm single....:/
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whao
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Be smart...Lie!
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but women don't like lies?
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Well, then.ask youself, "What are the consequences of my telling the truth?" There a difference between honesty and stupidity, you know! LOL
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Secretly they are fishing for complements or acceptance...Truth is so much easier though.
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surely gosgifttowomen should already have this down to an art :)
compliment and then tell the truth and compliment some moreLike (1)
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..........so what you saying?????? no...no this is a trick trying to confuse me
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Posted by 0Dani May 15th, 2012 at 2:56PM
:) I dunno if they are trick questions as such , could be insecurity... my trick questions sound nothing like that. If I think I look fat in something, I'm never asking anyone. I'll change. It kind of defeats the purpose of drawing attention on me on something I don't think I look nice in.-- and talking about it
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Reply by godgiftowomen May 15th, 2012 at 3:12PM
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