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Why do women date jerks(want nice guys),then go to smart/nice guys like me to help them, tease them, go back to jerk?

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    MrWinstonSmith - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MrWinstonSmith Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:14AM

    Its the age old question: IF all women like nice guys, and no women like jerks, then why are so many women with jerks, and so many nice guys alone?

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12 Answers to "Why do women date jerks(want nice guys),then go to smart/nice guys like me to help them, tease them, go back to jerk?"

  1. NAVYCounselor - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by NAVYCounselor Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:14AM

    I'm gay, been there done that the opposite way. Answer is, somebody emotionally fragile will seek out the strongest, most stable person they know. Mazeltov, been there a lot.

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  2. DominanceMaster - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by DominanceMaster Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:14AM

    Jerk has mullah.

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  3. itsgood2beback - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by itsgood2beback Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:13AM

    Because you let them

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  4. Xamad - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Xamad Apr 21st, 2013 at 12:18PM

    The heart wants what the heart wants. Simple as that.

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  5. easternshorebuzz - 70+ years old

    Posted by easternshorebuzz Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:11AM

    Try being a little unpredictable. The bond is strongest when there is not a constant reward but an intermittent reward. Don't always be available. Don't always do the same things. Bring something new to the table. Try a new hobby/activity.

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  6. prettyflamingo - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by prettyflamingo Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:02AM

    i wish i knew ive been doing it most of my life mayb its just the thrill

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  7. Sunshinegoneforever - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Sunshinegoneforever Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:37AM

    I don't do that and wouldn't do that.

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  8. Messyah - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Messyah Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:19AM

    Jerks represent glamorous risk, so woman get attracted. When they hurt, they go to a safe one to recover. Once they have recovered, they usually go back to the fantasy of a guy bad enough to be exciting and nice enough to be a forever-his.

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  9. Haramaru - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Haramaru Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:17AM

    the grand dellusion that they can change the jerk?

    also 'nicer' guys can sometimes can come across as not very assurtive and most women like assurtive guys who are more willing to make first moves or stronger impressions on them.

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  10. BlueXian - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by BlueXian Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:14AM

    I don't think they want anyone who's not playing the game. I know someone who looks for arrogant players for some reason, then gets guys to do you homework. But I don't really care, I don't want those girls.

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  11. highlander1999 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by highlander1999 Feb 10th, 2013 at 5:13AM

    ya find out the hard way there the jerks not the guys. i have had lot jobs and learned lots times the first person that comes to me and starts tabad mouthing other workers is usualy the one i have watch out for.

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