1) Actual good guys don't lose out. Most of the ones I know are happily married.
2) Just like some women long for "bad boys", some guys pursue damaged girls (often the ones with "bad boys"). Good girls tend to get ignored, until later.
3) Some of the guys who think they're "good", really aren't. They believe because they don't physically abuse women they should have their pick of whomever they want.
That would Indicate ALL Men in relationships are LOSERS. speaking as a Man in a Relationship for 27 Years ,Your Friend is full of $HIT.
Maybe it is the way you Put the Question. Why do Women Fall for, ALL the LOSERS. This indicates ALL the Guys women fall for are LOSERS. A Woman Fell for Me,therefore In your Opinion I would Be a Loser.
Old cavemen stuff. Women are attracted to big strong guys, even when they're total *****, because that was needed like a hundred thousand years ago so you didn't get killed.
love is a strange thing, its not Romance its just people being ho-ny for the other and the good guy is just someone who has to step it up just to be in the game of love, not sit back and wait for it to fall into his or her lap
Nice guys are mostly honest and realistic about themselves and their vision of the future. So we don't present ourselves as better than we are. And that might not be what you call a perfect guy. Being aware of that also weakens our confidence level. What you see is what you get, but not what you want.
Dickheads and pla
So on a first, distorted look one type seems to be what you want. Most people go for what they want, realizing too late, that it wasn't what they got.
Because most "good guys" have no game, and behavioral/psychological issues that make them unattractive to women - like craving approval from others, being too shy to approach women or unable to take a hint when a woman wants/doesn't want them, being indecisive, harboring misconceptions about masculinity/femininity, being hung up on past girlfriends, yada yada yada.
These so-called "good guys" who can't find women are fooling themselves.
They're not good enough, or the women would be there.
Good soul-Bad genes.
-Evolution dont like the good, evolution needs strong 'survival-of-the-fittest' types and not 'woman-and-children-first' types.
A broad generalization, but unfortunately pretty true. I've heard theories ranging from the sense of danger, thinking they can 'fix' them, it's biological, the 'losers' are more forthright to pursuing them, etc, etc, etc
Did your friend mean, why do all the hot girls fall for bad guys? Lol
Some women know exactly what they're worth
Bad guys are "dangerous"
The thrill of it all--until you end up pregnant and alone or punched out
I wish I knew.