1) Actual good guys don't lose out. Most of the ones I know are happily married.<br />
2) Just like some women long for "bad boys", some guys pursue damaged girls (often the ones with "bad boys"). Good girls tend to get ignored, until later. <br />
3) Some of the guys who think they're "good", really aren't. They believe because they don't physically abuse women they should have their pick of whomever they want.
That would Indicate ALL Men in relationships are LOSERS. speaking as a Man in a Relationship for 27 Years ,Your Friend is full of $HIT.
Maybe it is the way you Put the Question. Why do Women Fall for, ALL the LOSERS. This indicates ALL the Guys women fall for are LOSERS. A Woman Fell for Me,therefore In your Opinion I would Be a Loser.
Old cavemen stuff. Women are attracted to big strong guys, even when they're total *****, because that was needed like a hundred thousand years ago so you didn't get killed.
love is a strange thing, its not Romance its just people being ho-ny for the other and the good guy is just someone who has to step it up just to be in the game of love, not sit back and wait for it to fall into his or her lap
Nice guys are mostly honest and realistic about themselves and their vision of the future. So we don't present ourselves as better than we are. And that might not be what you call a perfect guy. Being aware of that also weakens our confidence level. What you see is what you get, but not what you want.<br />
Dickheads and pla<x>yers, on the other hand, are very confident and have no problem with stretching the truth a little, in order to sound more interesting and generally awesome. What you see is what you want, but not what you get.<br />
So on a first, distorted look one type seems to be what you want. Most people go for what they want, realizing too late, that it wasn't what they got.
Because most "good guys" have no game, and behavioral/psychological issues that make them unattractive to women - like craving approval from others, being too shy to approach women or unable to take a hint when a woman wants/doesn't want them, being indecisive, harboring misconceptions about masculinity/femininity, being hung up on past girlfriends, yada yada yada.<br />
These so-called "good guys" who can't find women are fooling themselves. <br />
They're not good enough, or the women would be there.
Good soul-Bad genes. <br />
-Evolution dont like the good, evolution needs strong 'survival-of-the-fittest' types and not 'woman-and-children-first' types.
A broad generalization, but unfortunately pretty true. I've heard theories ranging from the sense of danger, thinking they can 'fix' them, it's biological, the 'losers' are more forthright to pursuing them, etc, etc, etc
Did your friend mean, why do all the hot girls fall for bad guys? Lol
Some women know exactly what they're worth
Bad guys are "dangerous"
The thrill of it all--until you end up pregnant and alone or punched out
I wish I knew.
It's just a fact women are attracted to certain guys, usually the same few guys have most of the girls attracted to them. The problem is, when a guy has all these girls throwing tail at him, including married ones, ones with loving boyfriends, etc. that guy gets an attitude that he's wonderful and women are all *****. Then he acts that way, and people think women are attracted to jerks. I think it happens the other way around. The same with nice guys; they aren't found attractive by women and they have to get nicer and nicer to get any attention. They pour their heart and soul into any woman that will spend time with them, then they're heartbroken when she jumps all over some jerk (and they go around asking why women like jerks).
Well, perhaps it's because if guys are TOO nice that makes them boring or something... Therefore it might be best for nice guys to occasionally pretend that they are "bad." :-)