I only hate people on an individual basis, it makes much more sense.
without offending too many woman... woman are fed a bunch of BS as they are growing up. The whole princess thing that there daddy's little girl that can't do no wrong comes crashing down when they enter a relationship and realize that it is a two way street.
Sure doesn't sound anything like my childhood. lol Princess? Can do no wrong? How about being beaten and treated like you're stupid! That's why I used to hate men in general. However, I have learned and do now see each as an individual and am extremely grateful that not all men are "pigs" or all women "gossips".
Well, I was being sarcastic to a point. The reality is that we are all responsible for picking our partners. Some people are more demanding then others are in what they will and will not accept. I can tell you if you believe that prince charming is just going to fall in your lap then you are most likely going to find pigs.
This is too true. Too many little girls are raised to believe they are the center of the universe these days. Not all are, thankfully, but the world might be a better place if someone said 'no' to them every once in a while.
Yeah, and there are men who say women are ******* for the exact same reasons. Reason being they've only ever dated the opposite sex, so they've only ever had bad relationships with that sex, so since all the ones they've dated turned out to be arseholes, clearly that means they all are. The two constants in their failed relationships are (a) them and (b) the gender of their partners, and since obviously they never did anything wrong themselves, who's to blame?<br />
I would imagine bisexuals are much more aware of the two sexes being as bad as each other.<br />
(I sincerely apologise for the atrocities committed to pronouns in the name of gender-equality in this post.)
This is the best answer. But, I would also add that the fact that "gender" has become polarized to such an extent that a lot of what is deemed ***** or pig like behavior comes from the interpretation of someone who is seeing the issue from either feminine or masculine prospectives and is failing to view the behaviors from a 'neutral' prospective.
I think perhaps most men (though by no means all, I've seen some horrible comments on this site) have got the message by now that it's socially unacceptable, whereas women complaining about men are more likely to be cheered on.
True. People look for stereotypes and then criticise when they inevitably find some.
If the shoe doesn't fit DON'T wear it. Don't let the few women who for whatever reason think that 'men are pigs' force you to be a pig. If you are not a pig then you are not a pig regardless of what those few 'angry women' say or think.
a rule is often proven by its exception ... I am happy you aren't a pig!
Because some men are pigs, and some women are poisonous and/or spoiled and toy with men just to hurt them. It goes both ways, it's true some of the time for both sexes. You have to ignore people who make blanket statements about an entire group of people because it's usually not true for every single person in that group. You just have to be concerned with yourself and how you behave and not worry when women say these things, because you know you're not. Makes me wonder, for the women who say all men are pigs, what's wrong with those women that they only attract the attention of that kind of guy?
Yes, it's annoying when you're definitely not a jerk and making an effort to be a good person and people say those kind of things. Could be useful, though. You can use it as a red flag of who not to date!
because they think we are?
Well. Women can be too.
It seems as if you are impling that all women say this. I have never said this and I most certainly do not think all men are pigs. I am a women and I think there plenty of bad seeds out there man and women. I attempt to treat everyone in my life the way I would want to be treated. I am definitely no princess and make mistakes and I would assume that men are very capable of mistakes also. That does not however mean that they will be forgiven so easily if they do something hurtful to me.
Cool. Thanks. I think people say things out of hurt and they make general statements that are not very nice. I think that if people would take a step back sometimes they might have a different perspective. Who knows I could be completely off my rocker. Lol.
Exactly not many. Thanks. I don't make too many people laugh.
Well probably because statistically speaking men do majority of those things.. And yes women do them too so I guess no one can really say who does it the most because it doesn't justify anything.
Pigs are quite intelligent creatures.
The best defense is a good offense!