Why do women prefer guys who treat them badly or abuse them and mostly ignore the nice guys?
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Posted by EarthlingWise Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:48PM
Not this one again. And you, I suppose , are a lonesome nice guy?
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Reply by TrueCelt Mar 9th, 2012 at 4:30PM
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Reply by EarthlingWise Mar 9th, 2012 at 4:33PM
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Posted by SummerWind18 Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:15PM
Women prefer complex guys, guys with facets to their personality who are spontaneous and not always predictable(although there are also many women that prefer a more reliable man). Some like me have ADD and everything bores them and need excitement to even have committment. I think the "nice guys" are too accommodating and have this pushover quality or this quality like you feel like you are "leading" in the "couple's dance" and that feels like you are carrying him not the other way around and that is very unmasculine/unfeminine and feels unnatural. The "mean jerk" guy is honest, direct, and says just what he thinks, and is not polite. Not necessarily can you trust him but he tends to be more obvious. A mean jerk guy will tend to not give a **** what you want and remain himself and not be changed by you and some women love a challenge. Just like men. A mean jerk guy is more obnoxious and loud and steals your attention more, he is not quiet or refined.
Both types the "mean guy" and "nice guy" have an equal number of pros and cons.
Not all women will reject the nice guy.
You are going after the women that prefer the "mean"(not necessarily mean) guys and ignoring the women who like the nice guys, like a hypocrite. Women who are direct and passionate as myself will tend to want a man who is also harsher or rougher around the edges. Meanwhile women like myself tend to attract either men who want to be surrounded by ****** or men who are very timid and want a woman to do everything for them.
Luckily for me I found what I believe is the right man for me. :) We are quite interesting together!
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Posted by Kimmer112065 Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:51PM
Cause you are probably picking the type of women who want that. Maybe you should change the type of woman you go for.................. that might do the trick right there!
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Posted by tassiedave66 Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:00PM
funny as a nice kinda guy i tend to go for the bad girl type lol ..(much to my woe )
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Reply by SummerWind18 Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:16PM
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Posted by 2011A Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:57PM
The really sensible, good women like nice guys. Are you a nice guy? Perhaps you are only looking at nonsensible women. Reach out....
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Posted by amdee1 Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:56PM
Maybe because some are scared to death to leave a abusive relationship.
I think its just choice in some cases male/female not everyone is the same, we all have to find out lifes issues in our own time and being on the outside of somebody elses relationship can make it easy for you to judge the situation.
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Posted by annada10 Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:55PM
I don't know what type of women u been messing with...but i prefer a decent drama-free man.
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Posted by Ketsan Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:54PM
Because those guys get laid more so the women want to have sons like them so that their genes get passed on more.
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Posted by MissGaga Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:49PM
Why do many men have this so wrong idea about women- Now it got me thinking - Maybe this is the reason why men are treating women this way, they they think they are doing us a favor! LOL!
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Reply by Ketsan Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:55PM
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Reply by MissGaga Mar 10th, 2012 at 2:41AM
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Posted by GymGirl77 Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:48PM
Not all women are like this.
It does seem that the good guys in the world (though there aren't many) get left out in the dark.
But the good girls do too...
Good people in this world are a minority I guess and there are always baddies looking to take advantage of them and the good people just let it happen.
(I've sure let myself be used, abused, and taken advantage of)
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Posted by zeppelin1326 Jan 7th, 2013 at 2:02PM
First of all stop chasing women they arent worth the time. 2 I'll answer your question in three simple words "women are ******". 3 ever noticed how many women have daddy issues and play the martyr role...why the **** would you chase that because listen that is exactly what the supposed "bad boys" are dating. 4 I have seen the guys women date and they arent tough and they arent cool and half the time not attractive..so what is it you say....simple...women have cold ******* hearts and admire ******* qualities BECAUSE THOSE ARE THE QUALITIES THEY HAVE!!! GODDAMNIT. these women are worthless and here you are making yourself look like a begger chasing them.Leave them be and in 15 years they will be NOTHING. They will have no looks, the "bad boy" will be gone ******* someone else, and they will be one of the many 35-45 year olds sitting back talking about the "abuse" and the "betrayel" Let them wallow in their own psychotic female martyrdom. You on the other hand treat them the way they act...like trashy ****** until you find a good woman. Dont sit back and fawn all over them and view them as young sweet angels. You have got the wrong idea. i spent 12 years respecting women only to be treated like i was a *** and watch all the dopedealers and rednecks in town **** the hell out of these ******* and then one day i woke up and said "WTF why do i want a girl like this? no self-respect..no heart...no soul. So i stopped chasing and i still have to find the good girl but at least im not part of the game anymore. Slutty women like that ****. They love guys showing them attention only to shove it back in your face. Dont be one of those guys. Let the perverts and trash **** those ****** and you wait for a decent woman who by the time she is 45 doesnt have 3 kids from some worthless jackass. There , you have been taught in the ways of the jedi my son. Use your new found wisdom wisely :)
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Posted by lookitsaflood1889 Dec 19th, 2012 at 3:34PM
none of these blogs answer the question, and for you girls that think this is not true take a step back and really look at yourself and what kind of men you are attracted to, they are probably not huge deuch bags but they do treat you unfair or like "****" you know it to be true stop lying to yourself... i wish people were more honest with themselves so that i could get an answer and maybe solve this stupid epidemic.
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Posted by kharrisma Mar 26th, 2012 at 8:59PM
'Cuz the bad guys are loud and obvious and get themselves noticed one way or another, and the nice guys are generally laid-back, non-aggressive, fairly quiet, and in general they just don't stand out. They're SOOOO easy to overlook.
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Posted by TheBlondeBombshell Mar 10th, 2012 at 2:17PM
It probably has to do with the guy's looks, or that the guy is displaying their power and masculinity, which is instinctively attractive to women.
Many girls also like to think that they can change a guy like this, so they're in the relationship to try to get the guy to finally respect her and like her, so that she feels better about herself.
Most girls don't realize that this is what's going on in their heads though.
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Posted by WideOpen74 Mar 10th, 2012 at 7:23AM
Quite frankly, I think some women have issues & that's why they choose those types of men. Also, like it was said before here, opposites really do seem to attract lol Bottom line, there are too many variables, too many reasons. Take the positive comments/advice here & see where it leads.. Good Luck :)
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Posted by atadir Mar 9th, 2012 at 3:45PM
cuz they always have the hottest wheels, and they're so masculine
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Posted by luvsall3232 Mar 9th, 2012 at 2:29PM
Thats women for you, then they wonder why they are being treated badly, they deserve what they get. **** them.
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Posted by roseofthedevilsgarden Mar 9th, 2012 at 1:48PM
there are some women like that but they are idiot's, there are actually some women who like to be with good, decent men but they are probably the minority
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