I've noticed a lot of that too, lately. Yes, men do it too.<br />
My boyfriend does it, I always ask him not to do that around me. He doesn't do it as much now, or he rephrases it when he realizes what he said.<br />
I don't like those people... I tell them it's not nice calling people ugly, while thinking 'look at yourself first... inside and out'
Actually putting down is gottu do with the excess of X-chromosome in their bodies I think and cheap is just what kind of woman you are dealing with.
I think it's because they feel insecure. That doesn't make it ok though. I have been hurt a lot in the past by other women's, & men's, comments and it took me a while to heal from it. I no longer find it easy to respectfully connect with others in person like I used to. I've become very wary and I don't like how it feels to not be able to trust others in real life situations. :'(
Because it's too expensive to put them down in more expensive ways? o.O
Cuz dey ratchet