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Why do would a straight man go to a gay/lesbian bar alone to drink? My ex did that and his answer was-close 2 home.?

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15 Answers to "Why do would a straight man go to a gay/lesbian bar alone to drink? My ex did that and his answer was-close 2 home.?"

  1. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by pixelbest May 6th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    I have been in a few gay bars/clubs and I am not gay. He is your ex, time to stop worrying about it I guess.

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  2. Ilovepepsi - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Ilovepepsi May 6th, 2012 at 7:45PM

    But you went by yourself? I been to many with friends for birthdays, but never alone.

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  3. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by pixelbest May 6th, 2012 at 7:55PM

    Men do go to pubs by themselves yes. Either he is bi curious or just confident in his sexuality and wanted a beer close to home.

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  4. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Posted by justkoz May 6th, 2012 at 8:10PM

    I did it a few times myself and I will tell you that I didn't want to go back. The men will buy other guys drinks and then eventually will ask if they want to go to bed.

    So he may be getting free drinks but that doesn't mean your husband is gay.
    Now if he does it all the time I would say he is looking for trouble no matter how close it is to home. Tell him to stop drinking so much and go a little farther for a better place. The thing is if he is hit on by a woman in a straight bar what good is that either.
    I think he needs to go some where with someone you know or even you for his and your own well being and safety.

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  5. ob1kenobe - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by ob1kenobe May 6th, 2012 at 7:48PM

    I'm straight. I've also been to a gay bar alone. It was local, cheep and I have friends that are gay so had a chance I might meet up with them.

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  6. KenWX - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by KenWX May 6th, 2012 at 8:06PM

    Good for you.

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  7. dejaentendu90 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by dejaentendu90 May 6th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    Either he's closet gay/bi or he wanted to see some lesbians makeout.

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  8. laniferous - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by laniferous May 6th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    Gay bars have very cheap drinks

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  9. jthitt - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jthitt May 6th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    They are likely not as straight as you think.

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  10. Ilovepepsi - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Ilovepepsi May 6th, 2012 at 7:49PM

    I'm not trying to bash gay/lesbians. Just asking due to so many signs in our relationship. He had man issues in the bedroom.

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  11. DarknessCalls - 41-45 years old

    Posted by DarknessCalls May 6th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    Would me stopping into a straight bar make me straight?

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  12. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir May 7th, 2012 at 12:01AM

    it stopped being any of your business once you became his ex

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  13. KenWX - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by KenWX May 6th, 2012 at 8:05PM

    Why not? Do you think he's going to catch something? At least you know the probability of him being abused and punched by some loudmouth yobbo is close to zero. Why can't gay/lesbian bars welcome anyone? Of course they can.

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  14. BuckarooBonzai - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by BuckarooBonzai May 6th, 2012 at 8:02PM

    At least he's not trying to score some @$$

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  15. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular May 6th, 2012 at 7:56PM

    I haven't met a straight man who didn't want to "watch," they don't see Lesbians as human beings outside of the bedroom. Who's the queer/perverted one there?

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  16. Woodwose - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Woodwose May 6th, 2012 at 7:46PM

    My straight friend advised me that the beer in Gay bars was nearly half the price than "normal" bars, so he regularly frequented them. I thought it might be just an excuse, but apparently not.

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  17. rknst74 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by rknst74 May 6th, 2012 at 7:45PM

    Not sure why I have never done that but I did have a friend that wanted to see what it looked like inside a lesbian bar/night club.We were out driving around talking and I told showed him where one was as we drove past it.He begged me to stop and go in w/him just to look.Nothing to see because the club was upstairs where you had to pay to get in and probably wouldn't let two guys in anyway.I just laughed at him for wanting to do that.

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  18. Serenitree - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by Serenitree May 6th, 2012 at 7:45PM

    Why does it matter?

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  19. Ohkwari - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Ohkwari May 6th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    Why does it matter?

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