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Why do you guys have to give your lady's butt a smack? Can't you just say Hi Baby or I love you too? How hard can it be?

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Asked By: Kata24 41-45, F  4 months ago

Every time the hubby gets home from work, I get a small swat to my behind. Like really, is that really necessary? I can go for a small peck, but what's with the swat to the behind? Telling me, "Hey, it was there" is not a good answer....

When I tell the hubby I love him, I do give him a peck on the cheek or kiss not a kick to the behind? What gives?

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16 Answers to "Why do you guys have to give your lady's butt a smack? Can't you just say Hi Baby or I love you too? How hard can it be?"

  1. ladybug89 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by ladybug89 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:09PM

    there males! its like claiming whats theres! its all about whos boss and whats theres! a pride thing. naturally there also attracted to it, and i have no idea why lol

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  2. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:08PM

    I think its a testosterone thing!!!

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  3. ladybug89 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by ladybug89 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:10PM

    that too!!

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  4. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Wurkoutgurl Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:07PM

    Hmmm I don't mind a little butt smack. Just be glad you have a hubby who loves you and still wants to smack it.

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  5. ladybug89 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by ladybug89 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:10PM

    hahaa in a way thats true!

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  6. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:20PM

    There's a time and a place.......when I'm busy.....don't be smackin me....and when you get changed or undressed........OH HELLO.......its like time to whip out the damned riding crop and keep the testosterone bag at bay!!! DAMN!!!

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  7. leumasb - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by leumasb Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:04PM

    Its in the blood and nature waits on no man.

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  8. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:09PM

    its in the blood..........so now we're talking its blood born disease that gives you guys twitchy palms!??!! That's it..you all need lotion or something.....benadryl or something...

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  9. leumasb - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by leumasb Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:14PM

    You bring the lotion and I will rube it on.

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  10. deeppenetration - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by deeppenetration Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:02PM

    I like to give it a smack with my lips!

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  11. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:15PM

    Okay.......no more details needed....thanks! LOL

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  12. cs6c321 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by cs6c321 Jan 18th, 2013 at 1:21PM

    Hi baby, love ya !!! :-)

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  13. glwelder - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by glwelder Jan 18th, 2013 at 7:46AM

    Wish I could show this to my wife, she could see I'm alone is this! I love to give my wife's (or any wife, but I usually stick to my own!) *** a firm swat when she walks by or I see her bending over in the bedroom or kitchen! I think Kata24 has it about right, you got to choose the right time and place!

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  14. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 18th, 2013 at 1:46PM

    Thank you.....and today, while I was making dinner, the hubby came home from work, saw me pulling out the pot roast from the oven and as hot as it was, Ole Boy, started bumping his hips up against my bumpers and said, "OH BABY!! FOR ME!?! THIS IS THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING!!!" yea, yea, yea, he's a guy!!!! LOL

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  15. glwelder - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by glwelder Jan 20th, 2013 at 9:01PM

    Of course I meant "I'm not alone in loving to spank beautiful, firm *****" lol! And your hubby sounds like a very normal horny man!

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  16. LuckyBird - 70+ years old

    Posted by LuckyBird Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:03AM

    I would love that.

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  17. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:10AM

    I mean, there is nothing wrong with it...but hold on with the twitchy palms while I'm washing the dishes or pulling the clothes out of the dryer.......Good Lord...and at least give me time so I can swat him back!!! LOL

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  18. inthebelljar - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by inthebelljar Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:16PM

    i give my man a smack on the butt every chance i get.. and he does the same to me.. sure, we exchange plenty of kisses as well but there is nothing wrong with an occasional butt slap..

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  19. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:26PM

    There are times to see the jelly roll, girlfriend......I'm just sayin....why you gotta? Ya know, a hug and kiss or even a nice good grope goes a teeny bit further.......

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  20. Frazzill - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Frazzill Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:28PM

    slapping is abuse

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  21. NedKelly1 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by NedKelly1 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:02PM

    Hi Babe

    how are you going today slaps your arse can you make me a sandwich - lol

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  22. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:11PM

    Arse? Can you keep your twitchy palms off of it so I can make a sandwich for ya?!

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  23. Steve1127 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Steve1127 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:02PM

    Why are you asking a Trick Question lol.

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  24. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:12PM

    I am just waiting one of you guys to say the real truth.........you have to, you need to, you want to, and you're gonna to...no matter how annoying it is at time........

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  25. MyNameIsHurl - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by MyNameIsHurl Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:55PM

    I hate when they do it in public =/

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  26. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:11AM

    Kinda makes you feel a little like they are marking their territory a little bit?........"THAT"S MINE".....kinda like how dogs pee on trees to mark what's theirs......"OKAY...THAT"S MINE"..ooh....the Chihuahua left.......HYDRANT"S MINE NOW"......

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  27. MyNameIsHurl - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by MyNameIsHurl Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:17AM

    Yep yep.

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  28. Gamerchef - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Gamerchef Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:23PM

    We like to grab and touch things its not in our blood, nature, or habits we just like to touch what we find sexy. Like a small child playing with a toy if he had intentions of sleeping with it.

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  29. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:29PM

    so butt swatting is sexy and a sign of LOOVE? is that what you be tellin me?

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  30. Gamerchef - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Gamerchef Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:32PM

    Nope we find a nice round *** sexy so we are gonna try to touch it.

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  31. Frazzill - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Frazzill Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:20PM

    guys that do that are abusive a holes

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  32. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:27PM

    I won't go that far to say that.....its just that I find it affectionate when he does, but there are times...Like baby, really......you see me cooking here...you see me leaning over the table cleaning............you gotta......like really they gotta RIGHT NOW at that time!?!??!

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  33. rolo65 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by rolo65 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:13PM

    I like to rap the rump and get a peck :)

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  34. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:22PM

    Rap the rump? how many smacks are involved in that activity? Ya know, a kiss goes a longer way than just a smack to the yahooo...just saying guys!

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  35. rolo65 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by rolo65 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:29PM

    Did you want honesty here or to try and change me?

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  36. doucmenow - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by doucmenow Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:12PM

    I dont smack her *** but, I do like to give it a gentle carress and kiss her on the side of her neck. I guess it's my way of telling that I love her and find her sexy.

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  37. doucmenow - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by doucmenow Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:13PM

    I also rub her butt when I *** to bed and she has already fallen asleep instead of kissing her good night.

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  38. Kata24 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Kata24 Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:21PM

    What is she? Five? I see you guys have some serious butt fixations going on here........

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  39. TwattyMcCocknoodles - 22-25 years old

    Posted by TwattyMcCocknoodles Jan 17th, 2013 at 11:03PM

    that's boring

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