A variety of factors add up to this response in my opinion. The first of them would be the man seeing his father use the same sort of behavior to try to get sex from his mother. The second is his primary love language could be gift giving. Third a lot of women use sexual favors these days to bribe a man into doing something for them. Fourth a lot of men and women cheapen sex to the point where it is just another type of currency to be exchanged in a relationship for goods or services.
It's because those are their expectations and hopes. It doesn't mean it's true or right or something you or anyone else should ever feel you have to do. No one wants to feel 'bought.' If they can't give without expectations of certain repayments, they shouldn't give in the first place.
homie don't play that.
It's the way they have been conditioned to be. Women have their part in this and it is NEVER a one way thing, so you have to accept the female side of the equation.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU IN PARTICULAR !!!
But there are many women who do provide sexual favors for things they get.
Understood, and in that case I have no valid answer.
They hope more than expect...it's a facade
this is not true.
They won't expect sex if you did same for them. That's what happens if you keep accepting gifts like you're the big prize.
well its sad if its happenning in a long term relationship
they don't think you owe them , they hope you will compensate them for the pleasure they gave you . what other reason would they take you out ?
If the woman never pays , never gives a gift to him he will feel used. the woman expects his money he expects sex, who's worse?
exactly and they wonder why he never called again .
what if your kids are not his does he still owe you a free dinner . yes you're right some woman will put out if you don't so whats your point . having all those babies was your choice and your vagina
sorry I took it out on you I was put into a similar situation where someone intentionally got pregnant hoping I'd be with them after we discuss it she did it anyway . I have a sore spot when SOME women talk about how SOME men are not doing their part
They might expect but will they get it.