because the more vulnerable we make ourselves to be the less of a chance we have of actually getting laid ... a lot of you girls (and yes im not saying everyone) pick up on confidence and it would seem that once we have your attention the more disinterested we act towards you turns the tables ... instead of trying to work you over it is the girls who are trying to get the guy ... it can be a very subtle thing but yes sometimes guys can overcompensate and thus seem pitiful because it shows how much they are faking
it works a lot of the time and for the most part, even if you are cognizant of it most dont care because it allows them to in essence dominate you ... girls like it when guys have a certain amount of control ... again shows manliness! like dodley do right .. well maybe not but more like wolverine
Mostly cause they're worried about being rejected I'd reckon. So the shields are already up and prepared for it.
flirting shamelessly is fun - that's all .......
Women love guys that aren't interested; they want the guy they can't have.
More than likely they are lunatics.