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Why does a girl hurts a boy intentionally, eventhough she likes him a lot?

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I suspect its for the same reason that young people like to poke each other or do outrageous things to one another - because they are bored and want to see if the other person is still "alive" (paying attention) and if not, to get them to do so.
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lost12345
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 11:01AM
Same reason a boy does. They get the person interested. Usually people do not like rejection or being picked on so they tend to focus on that person. It is the way immature underdeveloped people (namely kids) cope with their feelings of attraction.
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AshMeadow
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 11:06AM
Because she doesn't like him a lot...
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Vermillion44863
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 11:12AM
maybe to see if he really likes her. "how far with this person bend to prove that they like me" kind of mentality
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neldo
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 11:18AM
open your eyes dude!play
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shf84
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 11:35AM
I'd say something isn't right in the girls head.
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mixshadow
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 12:15PM
Why does a boy hurts a bgirl intentionally, eventhough he likes her a lot?
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MiniBryant
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 12:27PM
It's because she likes to test him. If he loves her regardless what she does then his love is more appreciated. When I test and males fail, I am out!
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silkpantygirl
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 12:42PM
AH! FINALLY!!
A "question" UP TO MY TASTES.
Girls "hurt boys" because THEIR fathers "do not provide
them with the PROPER lessons 'In Life'."
A "dad" to a girl SHOULD:
Teach them to dress and behave "in a feminine manner"
AT ALL TIMES.
Know WHEN to say "yes" to his daughters' requests and when to say "no". WITHOUT 'losing his cool'.
NEVER allow HIS Wife 'To Countermand A Decision He
makes' concerning THEIR daughter. THIS will 'ONLY' cause "the girl" to ALWAYS Run to Her Mother.
Practice "these" steps AND "girls will LEARN to Respect
the Opposite Sex (ie. Boys).
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thesadness
Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 4:14PM
A lot of times people do things to hurt other people (when they do in fact like them) to see what their effect on them is. It's usually a subconscious action. I think most of the time people aren't being consciously manipulative but I've been in relationships where one person or the other will pick a fight to see if you the other person is really in it and committed or will leave at the first sign of trouble. This usually stems from an insecurity that you need or want the other person more than the other person wants you.

Also for some people it's difficult that liking someone gives that person so much power over them. Sometimes lashing out at the object of desire is a reaction to that discomfort.

All that being said doesn't excuse this sort of behavior. Ultimately this behavior is totally self defeating and isn't good for anyone.

I was telling a friend once about an argument I was in with my boyfriend. I was saying that I didn't feel that I should apologize for whatever reason. My friend said to me 'whenever you have the opportunity to be generous with the person you love, do it. Be generous' That advice has helped me a lot. That's not to say I'll apologize or admit wrong doing if I haven't done anything wrong but it has taught me to try to think about where the other person is coming from and figure out the best way to open up communication instead of sinking into miscommunication and antagonizing behavior.
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