Why does a person say that "im not good enough for you" like they feel you are better than they are?
5 Answers to "Why does a person say that "im not good enough for you" like they feel you are better than they are?"
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they mean it
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Low self-esteem and not enough empathy to know they should shut up about this because it just sounds weird to any normal person.
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I felt that way once when I met a guys parents, part of it was, I was really happy just the way I was and his mother asked me personal questions like, "Do you go to a salon?, Do you get pedicures?" and at the time I didn't ever really go to salons that much and would never then nor now get a pedicure, but for pedi's I don't think it's right to ask someone to get on their knees and scrub my feet, massage my calves and paint my toe nails, that's personal preference there.
Anyway after meeting his parents and seeing how uppity/yuppy they were, I felt that THEY were too good for me, but he was okay, actually it took him a bit to get used to my style in the beginning, so at first he kind of was "too good" for me.
I remember when we first were together, he lived across the street from his college, and I moved in with him, I remember asking him, since we were in an area where students were a bit wild, "Do you have any sort of weapon?" and he didn't, I felt really vulnerable, so I went back to my place and grabbed brass knucks and a pretty big knife, I thought nothing of it, and he finally sat me down the next day and told me he felt really uncomfortable around weapons, I was shocked.. I told him it was dangerous to be in a house with no weapons in a college area where crime was decently high, after a bit of talking to him, he calmed down about it and understood it.
Now that I think about it, I was too good for him!Like (1)
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Either they are really that pathetic or they are trying to manipulate you by making you feel superior in the relationship
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Posted by Umueze Mar 18th, 2013 at 10:59PM
Low self esteem. For a lot of girls, they believe they do not deserve a good guy. So they settle down with some of the worst men they meet. Kinda sad really :
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Reply by theadventuresofalexus Mar 18th, 2013 at 11:00PM
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Reply by Umueze Mar 18th, 2013 at 11:02PM
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