because the motive isnt whats hurting you its fact that you are in fact being bullied<br />
if i smack you in the face it'll still hurt if i say im doing it to make myself feel better or because this is how i express my bad life at home
no prob :)
It still hurts because they are lowering your self confidence. once a person insults your flaws, you begin to look at them more carefully. they begin to stick out more and more and your brain tricks you to think that everyone only sees your flaws.
Because the victim believes they deserve it on some level. Because the victim feels powerless to stop it.
Because they singled you out. That leaves a big question in your mind that maybe I am what they say. It's easy to pick on people. It's so easy to find a fault in someone. Do not let that intimidate you into believing them!
what can i say?!.......some people are j erks.......end of story......toughen up & don't let em bother you.......waste of space anywayz
Bullies will pick on someone usually who's going through some challenge. My daughter experienced this. This is what makes the act so cowardly. What incredible insight it gives the one being bullied into appreciating good traits in people who are not like this. It will make them a step ahead in understanding and appreciating the ones around them worthy of same.
Because they allow them to hurt them
so true that is why no kids should be on the internet ineracting with complete strangers-I was more referring to adults being bullied.
Knowing doesn't bring you comfort. It hurts when anyone goes out of their way to purposely cause you harm.