Good question. I do not know the answer but I have a solution. Do not get attached to people here.
We are all alone really, if you think about it.
Because over the last eighteen months they ruined it, with ill judged changes.
For one thing they let youngsters like you in. No offence but your lives are so different to what us older members are used to.
You've taken over the site. Just as you will take over the world as we die off.
This used to be a haven for older more mature peeps too hang out.
Thanks for that sweetie.