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It makes me angry, because sometimes I zone out because she says some stupid things and that question puts me on the spot. It caused a serious argument yesterday that made us both very upset.
patsfan85 patsfan85 41-45, M 18 Answers Feb 13, 2011

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shes insecure with silence-its quite common

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You need to be honest and tell her what's on your mind. She might be trying to make conversation but you're being silent. Basically, you're not sharing yourself with her. People need conversation and interaction from others. It's no fun to talk to a pet rock. ;)

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Because she wants you to tell her that you're thinking about her, or something you've done with her in the past, or want to do with her in the future. More than likely she could care less what you're really thinking about if you're even thinking of something at all.

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There must not be to much of a conversation piece in this relationship. She is bored out of her mind!

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:/ you are slow. questions are often asked if one is interested. clearly in this case, she's interested on what you're thinking about.

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She is wondering why you aren't pampering her, they like to be the centre of attention.

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she is probably bored thats why she keeps asking you....how do I know....I dated someone who kept asking me the same thing I had to tell him it got on my nerves to knock it off.

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All I know is that everything is usually a two way street, so you might want to get to the bottom of the questioning, it could very well be something you are doing that sets it off...

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So she can sense if his heart isn't in it.

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I don't think she's bored with you. You wants to know you inside and out. Sure wish I would have found out more about my 'intended' before we married. Talk about two ill-suited people. Try to find a way to converse with her and let her into some of your thought processes. If you like her, give it a try; otherwise, she may be very insecure, which is a danger signal.

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She wants to know what zone your in.

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As long as you keep getting that question consider it a good sign.<br />
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Means she is trying to figure you out,and women don't waste their energy trying to figure out a man she has no interest in.<br />
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As a side note regardless of what the women say here don't answer that question directly too often.If you do you lose the mystery and challenge that they crave,and once she has you totally figured out,she then has a decision to make.<br />
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Either<br />
1.Hope you ask her to marry you or...<br />
2.Leave you for another guy she cant figure out.<br />
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Update: women DO NOT like to be the center of their mans' attention like some people think.They do however thrive on the attention they have earned.Being put on a pedestal w/o having to work for it makes the attention you give to them worthless in regards to establishing an emotional attachment to you.All it does is temporarily repair their self esteem.<br />
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However don't take that advice too far, answer her directly when whatever is on your mind is pertinent to the strengthening of your relationship.If it isn't then give her an indirect,teasing or funny reply that doesn't answer the question fully and only gives her more to try and figure it out.<br />
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Be deserving of your attention is what they want...don't give it freely too often<br />
Most women wont admit that's good advice....but as long as you are on their mind you are in their heart,no matter if its good or bad,but please try and make the majority of it good.

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Because you're zoning out :)

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You just answered it yourself, babe!<br />
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You zone out! <br />
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When you listen to people, people can generally tell as you're gonna be sitting forward, making eye contact, paraphrasing stuff (clarifying what they've said) and generally looking interested...<br />
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Yeah...we all say stupid things at times....we all are stupid at times....It all depends on what you want out of the relationship. Gotta accept the good with the bad, hun....<br />
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Sammy Jo Duponte xx

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