I'm always glad when an ex moves on, because then they'll leave me alone.
haha, great answer
Love,something that can feel so beautiful can also be the most hurtful pain in the world. About 5 months ago I found out the man I loved for a very long time is now married with 2 children. Im glad he is happy, but it was painful for a few days.
I think it is also a sense that you gave them some of you and they are who they are because of you and know they are giving this to another. It feels like they are trading on your intimacy.
I guess I have a different point of view. I like it when an ex moves on, that means she will now leave me alone.
it only hurts when you're selfish
Emotions left with an ex remain there until they decay, to keep yours around and find out an ex has moved on would ensure you that its over. The possiblies of getting back together...
It normally hurts because you still care about that person. When they move on you realize they are not coming back and there is a place inside you that wishes they would. When YOU move on it stops hurting because your interest has moved on to a new person.
I have been divorced for about 19 years however if my ex got re-married I might feel a twing of sorrow. I love him because he is the father of my child, but I am not IN love with him any longer, he killed that with his affairs.
Because you care or love them still. If you didn't care, you wouldn't feel anything.
It doesn't sound like you disagree with me at all, but rather validated my point. I never said that if love was there once it has a chance of dying. If it was ever there (the operative word being 'if'), then there's a good chance it'll hurt. If instead you went through the motions of being in love without actually being in love, then there's a pretty good chance that you will get over it quickly.
its natural when u lov e someone from heart and even though u broke up it hurts afterwards finding that he moved on because u once loved him from heart
dont be sad , it a sign of happiness that u have a heart otherwise i seee many girls with no hurt . u are unique keeeep it that way
Jealousy makes me hurt when they've moved on.
Guilt makes me hurt when they haven't.