I think it's because they fear the unknown and fear being trapped if something they consider better comes along.
It's a big decision to make.
Commitment issues.<br />
Wanting to sow seed freely.<br />
Thinking someone better is just around the corner.<br />
Hurt from past wounds.<br />
Love makes one pause. And dream. And hope. And takes time...
he's not sure and wants to "shop around" or thinks that the girl will always be there anyway so why bother :(<br />
Hope I'm wrong
well you got to be sure
If he really,really, loves. her...fear...fear that she will say ....no.
Because he's always hoping some better ***** will come along!
like me, he doesn't want to get married or tied down
Marriage is a promise no person can be certain of keeping because they never have enough information to make that promise. The only person that can marry and be certain is a person that lived a life of fidelity with one mate and is about to die. A proposal is always premature for a finite creature. A person who waits is just trying to be less premature than they have to be.