Lots of 53 year old men have strong sex drives. Being 53 these days is not like the prior generations . . . we are in better health generally. It is also not because we had no sex in prior relationships. I have found the more intimacy that imhave in a relationship, the more I want. Bottom line . . . Enjoy it.
You ask why? Better question is Why not? I am 55, I have no problems with an erection or lasting a good long while AND my Wife and I make love DAILY. Oh I don't take any medication either - again no problems what so ever.
Because he loves you and you turn him on as you are so sexy.
Because he's 53! So many opportunities, so little time. Enjoy it!
Says who? I just lost a friend who lived to past 100 and he had no problems either - with a much younger wife. He was my hero, coolest guy I ever knew.
You missed my point. I digress.
I am getting close to that age I have have no problems ... and need no medication
I'm 51 and I also have a very strong libido. It's either one of two things: genetics and good physical health, or possibly sex addiction.
why, do you want him?
Sex addiction? Well are you enjoying your intimate relations? Talk? What about action? Are you suggesting intimacy once per day or twenty times per day every day? Addiction implies that it interferes with life rather than enhances it. That is the difference and the dividing line. Intimacy has to be mutually satisfactory - a healthy intimate relationship is one that adds to but does not detract from your life.
The questioner wrote 'very very strong sex drive'. That was the clue. IMHO (that's unusual for a man in his 50s unless one of the two conditions I mentioned are present (great health/good genetics or perhaps compulsive sexual desire/behavior.
he probably didn't have sex a lot when he was younger i know this couple who are in their 60's and they still get busy.most guys who burn out in their middle age usually had lots and lots of sex some did when they where teens and it came back to hunt them later in life also it's how he took care of himself
really how did he take care of his body?
thats one of the reason and he must just have a high sex drive enjoy, behave youself, and try to keep up cause have something most women dream about good luck.
this is funny...my dad is 82, been married 1x mom passed away, Im 52 he has a girlfriend who is 34....very sexy Colombian. He does not look his age. takes care of himself, doesnt smoke or drink at all... he has six pack abs and said "I know my age, I just dont feel it" Up until he met his girlfriend he would have 2 or 3 different women visiting or staying over. My wife is bothered by his sex drive and said it must be "chemically enhanced" But since I do know his Dr. I know this is not the case. I still have a very strong sex drive, I dont need it everyday, but my wife is one that feels sex is good perhaps 1x per month . thats not good at all. Now on that note I dont want to cheat but I met a 28 year old law student who thinks Im the best thing since sliced bread and one other woman who is 64, does not look it at all and she is ON F$%^ing Fire. She said she loves sex, and would have it everyday or as often as possible.
It sucks to know its Feb and the last time I had sex was Christmas...... but I dont want to cheat.... I have tried everything, talking, cuddling, romantic dinners, romantic vacations.... I dont get it... I take care of myself 5'8'' 170 very toned and I do not look my age work out every other day. Retired, great pension, 2 houses and a vac place too.... what more do I need to do, oh yeah kids are grown and not around so whats the issue.... im growing weak inside