this makes absolutely no sense since u are an attractive female...i'm shocked any guy would ever turn down a pretty girl, let alone an invitation! lol
Does he take LONG showers?
Has he stopped treating you as sweetly / kindly as he did in the previous 7 months?
Does he make snyde comments about your body?
To me this sounds like he has lost interest in you ... and is watching **** so he can ********** in the shower ... then go to sleep. If his attitude towards you has "soured" and this is how he finds his release, then I would say you are losing him to a set of ideal principles and images that few women can live upto. **** (and the movie industry) have convinced us that women need to be a size 2 with 38 DDs. **** has men convinced that women need to be all of that, swallow, and be multi-orgasmic at the sight of their beer gut and tobacco stained teeth. Its so stupid ....
Your man needs to appreciate you ... in and OUT of the bedroom. So do you stop doing the things you do for him? No, that is childish.
He HAS lost respect for you. Its upto you to get it back.
FLIRT with him at home. Dress in something sexy every now and then ... and ALWAYS dress sexy when you two go out. MAKE him uncomfortable with what you wear. Let other guys check you out, talk to you, and even flirt with you. WHY?
You have lost value to him. If he watches too much ****, it devalues you as his partner. If he would rather spank it in the shower than to make any effort to please you, its upto you to bring him out of this spell. Its harsh, a little extreme, but its the truth. HE needs to see that you are desirable by other men .. I would think that would wake him up and get him back on track. If he DOES take you out, and dresses like a slob, make sure he knows you dont care for that, but dont tell him until you are at your destination. That way he has to endure a poor choice while you are getting hit on.
This little social exercise will let things come to a halt ... and it will open 2 doors for you. One will help you restore this relationship. The other will help you leave it behind.
In time you need to find out what kind of **** excites him the most (research computer history or look at the magazine he has). Does he watch threesums? does he watch bondage videos where women dominate their men? you will find a common theme with everything he is watching ... that may help you understand him.
After you find this out, play into it. If he is watching men getting tied up in a dungeon, tie his sorry *** down and get what you need from him.
Dress sexy and sexually frustrate him. Tease him. Make him earn it.
Personally, I would suggest getting him drunk, let him pass out, then locking him up in a chastity device for a week and making him eat your ***** until you *** every night for a week before he ever got to touch himself.
You are young, and its only been 7 months .... if you dont want to work on this with him, and he doesnt want to work things out, there are PLENTY of other guys that will give you what you need physically and emotionally. GOOD LUCK !!
based on your other questions (I creeped on your profile) I would say its time to dump this baggage and move on. Dont waste anymore time with him. There are PLENTY of guys out there that will give you the attention you want and fulfill your physical needs.
You've stopped having sex after 7 months? That's odd. I'd think sex would still be part of the relationship, even if he's watching ****.
Maybe you need to spice things up, watch some with him see what hes into....Just because someone is hot does not mean they are good in bed..
First of all, don't take it personal. Some guys are that way, so don't assume there's something wrong with you. Does he know it bothers you? ln my opinion you shouldn't be the one to be more understanding. l think he should respect you enough to prefer you and stop it.