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Why does my dad think i am a piece of ****?

he just ignores me and lives his life as it is . just because I live far away doesn't mean I am not still part of the family. So he hates my mother... so what.... I am almost 40 but hell I am still his daughter. This sucks.

no he's not really a douche... he's just really busy with his work I guess.

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Your dad is a douche. You're probably better off without his emotionally detached ***

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Lucyintheskywithd iamonds	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 8:10PM Fathers are generally not the primary caregiver for the children so less of a bond develops. When the children reach adulthood, the bond with children necessarily weakens so the adult child can get on with her life. Whatever the life you have as a 40-year-old, I suspect bonding with your father is not a daily activity, to say the least. Rated: +3Vote for this!
floridabreeze	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:27PM he is wrong.! Rated: +1Vote for this!
BoxingBro	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:27PM I see what you're talking about, while my dad is not like this... I am dealing with a Sergeant who is... ** that guy. He probably acts like that because he knows HE is a piece of **. Rated: +1Vote for this!
notg	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:27PM HE'S JUST JEALOUS. Rated: +1Vote for this!
durbanpoison	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:30PM ask you dad... Rated: +1Vote for this!
justicia	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:35PM Sorry to hear that. You should tell him how you feel though, as much as it hurts. If you have to cuss at him, do it. And vent here, you are more than welcome to. I think we all have and it has helped. Rated: +1Vote for this!
bekkylou	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:35PM Does it really matter after all these years? Just because he's family doesn't mean you have to get along. You don't need his acceptance, respect or love, I'm sure their are plenty other people around who love & support you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
KiwigirlAnj	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:38PM who cares what he thinks of you? what do you think of YOU? Rated: +1Vote for this!
wack1985	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:45PM I'm sure you're not! Rated: +1Vote for this!
atasteforsufferin g	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:48PM my father feels the same of me. it hurt me for a very long time but i've learned to live with it. i'm sure your not a piece of crap. try and accept yourself as you are and screw him. it's easier said than done. but i know you can get there. hugs Rated: +1Vote for this!
axeman66	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 7:54PM maybe he thinks you're your mother. sounds like his loss. Rated: +1Vote for this!
arcticsnow	Posted Nov 3rd, 2009 at 8:00PM Same story here, I know for a fact that age does not make a change on how you feel about a missing relationship. Why is the relationship with your dad not of quality? don't know, but it has nothing to do with you. How can you cope? open your eyes, forget about your wishes and crudely look at the reality. Chances are you will hurt for a time, then your expectations will be gone. Now again why? may be because deeply he is not a happy person...Take care. Rated: +1Vote for this!
yenohtel	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:50AM i understand what you feel even when you are 40. talk to him as a person, a human. then tell him your deepest thoughts and feelings to him. let it out, open up, release... Rated: +1Vote for this!

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