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Why does my date get annoyed when I wouldn't drink any alcohol with him?

theres no rule stating that you have to drink alcohol on a date is there?

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  1. BarvoDelancy - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by BarvoDelancy Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:51PM

    Giving him the benefit of the doubt - people don't like to drink alone. Its custom to share a drink with someone and be social.

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  2. bigwater31 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bigwater31 Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:51PM

    We think you really know why.

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  3. ChicBizarre - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by ChicBizarre Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:53PM

    but do I really?

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  4. bigwater31 - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by bigwater31 Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:56PM

    Yes you do your a big girl now. And he will look better after a few hahahaha

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  5. spin1echo - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by spin1echo Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:51PM

    Does'nt want to feel left out. An insecurity issue.

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  6. Govinda1337 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Govinda1337 Sep 5th, 2012 at 2:33PM

    Nope there's absolutely no rule that you have too, but people some people feel uncomfortable unless you drink with them I have met very few that felt that way. I don't drink so I certainly wouldn't push you to do something you don't want to do. When I tell people I don't drink most offer up a "defense" about why they do or think they should. It may sound insulting, but I laugh inwardly when they do because I've said them all myself and since you are "high maintenance" I would suggest going on a date elsewhere besides the local pub.

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  7. bunnyhound - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bunnyhound Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:56PM

    if i went on a date and she wouldnt drink at all, i would never go out with that girl again. cause if we got together i would be waiting for the day when she said "you should quit drinking" then i would have to kick her out of my house. its easier to get away from that before it starts.

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  8. ChicBizarre - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by ChicBizarre Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:59PM

    excuse me. but I have no problem with others drinking. I just don't want to drink all the time myself! why is that so wrong?

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  9. bunnyhound - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by bunnyhound Sep 5th, 2012 at 2:03PM

    its not wrong, but if you dont drink, and also you dont mind other people drinking.....that is very rare. it makes you a good catch. but my original comment probably is what he was thinking. or like others said, he wanted to get something from you and thought getting you to drink would make that easier.

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  10. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by DozerDan Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:55PM

    You refused to participate in normal social behavior. You demanded "special" diet status rather than a healthy normal diet. You implied that you object to normal social drinking. You identified yourself as "high maintenance." You showed that your lifestyle and his are not compatible. That's a few reasons, there are probably more. And note: non-drinkers don't live as long.

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  11. ChicBizarre - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by ChicBizarre Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:58PM

    I drink on weekends thank you very much. and I've dumped him now I just wasn't into him. and being high maintenance just means you have standards.

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  12. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Reply by DozerDan Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:59PM

    Oh, and you demonstrated your normal "*****" behavior too.

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  13. PhazonMario - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by PhazonMario Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:54PM

    because he's probably just trying to get in your pants

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  14. LucilleLucilleLucille - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:54PM

    You dashed all hope of him having sex with a drunk girl.

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  15. ChicBizarre - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by ChicBizarre Sep 5th, 2012 at 2:30PM

    hahaha lol

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  16. 1963d - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by 1963d Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:52PM

    Not sure but he may be trying to get you to drink panty remover and that my dear is not good if your in a public place .............. but if your at home,,,,well............try some :) ox

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  17. misery22 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by misery22 Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:52PM

    silly goose dare i say to get you drunk and to loosen up a bit. don't drink you don't have too or run fast away like now.

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  18. ChicBizarre - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by ChicBizarre Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:52PM

    run!

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  19. Helden - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Helden Sep 5th, 2012 at 1:50PM

    he was hoping you would be easy?

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