Why does my ex still want to hurt me, and make me jelouse?
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Posted by unicorn59 Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
I don't think he cares, if he is trying to hurt you....or if he's trying to make you jealous....
Obviously, he's immature...grown men don't act like that....
It's probably about him....his need for control, and his need to not feel like the loser, so he'll try to create one, in you.
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Posted by Waiwera Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
You know, I think its a test...
"Have you really let them go on their own way, or are they still able to "get under your skin" and are you still not detached and impartial"?
If you have truly cut the attachments, then they will be like any other person, and when they try to do that, you will either not recognise it or will say to yourself, "Huh? What was all that about? That doesn't make sense to me. I think I'll ignore it."
As Solarcybele says, it may be easier said than done; but if you can do it, it wll be worth it - you won't be within their power to hurt again.
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Posted by williams1954 Sep 27th, 2012 at 2:12PM
I got divorced 12 months ago and my ex husband still makes me jealous , he puts himself on dating sites , and writes comments to women saying there there lovely . It's hurts me still , why is this plz
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Posted by NANSELTAR Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
He does it because he knows he can. If he knows he can hurt you, he interprets that as meaning you still care and he still has some "ownership" of you. I'm not sure why you get jealous. Did he leave you or did you leave him? One thing is certain - if you get back together, he'll be even worse.
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Posted by pntdhorse61 Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
To show they have power over you still and to get a reaction from you.
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Posted by GoddessNakiBean Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
You still care and you still give your ex power over you... that is why your ex is able to still make you jealous.
Something you need to think about... If your ex returned to you would you want to go back to your ex? Why? Out of habit of being with your ex or do you still love them?
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Posted by Mehonestly Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
He obviously still cares for you, and if your feeling jealous maybe you still care for him.
Could you maybe give it another go?
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Posted by cyberkitty Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Only you can make yourself jealous. It's your own emotions that hurt you, not the actions of your ex.
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Posted by todayfriend Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
friend..........
that ex want's u to make jelous because ex want's u r relation again and ex think's that u have to come forward and to ask excuse with him .
my sugestion is if u r very much intersted with u r ex go and join.
god bless u ..............
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Posted by solarcybele Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Who broke up with who?
What has this person done to try and hurt you and make you jealous?
Nobody can hurt you unless you let them, but I know this is easier said than done!!!!
Your ex is feeling angry and hurt.
Have you spoken to them about this?
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