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Me and my ex have broken up for two months ago. We are "Acquaintance" And I would like to remind the readers, that HE broke up with me, not ME. Recently I have asked to join my friends dinner party, following with a concert later in the evening. which I am looking forward to. Then ask my new friend, if It´s possible to ask my ex to come to this party and eat with us. Because they were all curious of who he was. (I talked "behind" his back) And I thought he might say no,because he doesn´t know them. So I did. Of my surprise, he says yes. That surprises me a little. So why question is: Why does my ex want to come to a party, where he knows no one? This does not make sense at all. Have I laid him on? Please advice!
FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Answers Aug 21 in Dating & Relationships

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Probably because he isn't as devious as you are and hasn't divined said deviousness in your invitation.

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I am not devious. I regret asking him to come. But hopefully, he might not come. Thank you for your comment.

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Why do you want to invite someone who broke up with you to a dinner party ?

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Well, I have no idea?
I don´t want him around me. I guess, this is my fault?
Thank you for answering my question.

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he wants to cramp your style and make sure you remain available to him, tell your friend you dont want him there as it could spoil a good opertunity for you to meet someone else :)

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Why would he do that? He is over me and he "has" already made a decision to never come back to me. According to him, I was no good and I never made him happy.
I am no one special.

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its his lovely controlling side, he wants to keep you ate arms length just where he can use you he doesnt want you in a new relationship!

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ohh i just realised YOU are doing the inviting!! ok scrub that your just nuts lols

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Yes, I did. I don´t understand men at all. I guess, we women read too much into it. Well, maybe I should ask him not to come. I hope that he does not show up.
Take care and thank you for the comment.

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its my fault too, i should have read the question more carefully before replying but then us guy's brains are not as convoluted as you girls lols
good lucj whatever happens :)

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No problem, no hard feelings. Thank you :)

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Happy to hear that, you are admitting that.

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