If the oral sex is always him on the receiving end then it's time to end the giving. If it's mutual oral sex then enjoy it with him; but, outside the bedroom discuss your needs for vaginal intercourse, too. If he refuses then he's a lazy lover and not worth the gift of oral sex that you're giving him. All men love oral sex and some prefer it to intercourse because there's nothing for them to do but lie back and enjoy. Bring him to the understanding that marriage and sex is a two way street. Nobody rides for free.
Exactly! I have the same issue and I am done!!
He's being lazy....tell him he'll get his when you get yours....
Hard to figure. Mine seems to and I really do not enjoy giving it. My girl friend suggested something that worked for her: let him get it elsewhere but only from other guys. He went for it and we are both happy. The surprise is how many guys are out there who like to give oral service to another guy with no reciprocation expected! He could be very choosey (he used craigslist), and has 5 guys from 31 to 54 who claim to be straight, are married , in very good physical shape--generally decent guys. And they are discreet.
he is not interested in a pleaseing experience for the both of you, oral, giving and recieving should just be a part of foreplay and then intercourse and after both have a big O go down on her again and then kiss her so she can taste both juices
Honestly if he's wantiing just oral over the whole act then he's not being fare to you. You should talk to him openly and refuse if Your wanting m,ore then to just blow him it's give and take and hie's just taking not good for any relationship.
I believe your morals are kicking here.the bible says any thing a wife does with her hubby is ok.same reason women rather be sucked .its more pleasurable
A man never loves a woman more than when he's coming in a hot wet tight and knowing mouth.<br />
Knowing how to give great suck and loving it is a gift.<br />
Keep on giving to that lucky dude.
Oral sex is a giving and a taking. You give and he takes. It is also a show of dominance sexual activity. <br />
Try sucking him hard again in 20 minutes and see if it leads to reqular sex.
It feels better and it is more convenient and doesn't take as much work, doing it when he wants brings him a special satisfaction and also tasting and swallow your husband like that is a very intimate way of showing acceptance and adoration for him. He will still want regular sex but let him decide when he wants it so he will be into it and do a good job.