I'm sorry you are hurting. I have been where you are. I left my family, I have nothing to do with them. I hope you can either speak up to them or leave, because you deserve to live free. Never let yourself be a slave!
cuz they suck, obvious you are a great person, next time they say that sya do it yourself.
They don't and never have...but i would think if it's happening to you then stop everything and give them something to really complain about their loss right.
Many factors may be there....!