He'd rather crash the wedding.
Afraid of commitment
Maybe he had read your posts & is scared of you Lol
Most likely because he is enjoying all the advantages of being married to you without any of the legal entanglements that a marriage would impose on him. So many younger adults play house and seem surprised when marriage is no longer part of the deal.<br />
I know of course that marriage is not of a necessity but being legally bound allows any collective assets to be divided equally when and if the relationship sours as 50% of them do according to statistics.
True!....A perfect solution, but how many do take advantage of any legal entanglements.
I think that is a bad sign. Don't marry what you wouldn't do.
hmmm..... maybe u aint fluffy enuf for him!