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Why don't guys ever approach me?

I've been told that I'm cute, or pretty on multiple occasions. But... All I get are stares, and glances. They don't approach me, or wave, or talk to me. And I don't like making the first move, because honestly, guys in general intimidate me. Can anyone help me pinpoint what exactly is wrong with me? (Am now seventeen and never done anything more intimate with a guy than hugging.)

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    kurokineko - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by kurokineko Sep 7th, 2012 at 7:52PM

    its the same thing with girls for me

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  1. Iam4nightowl - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Iam4nightowl Sep 7th, 2012 at 8:06PM

    I ask myself that about girls all the time. You can go to a bar if you really need that satisfaction. What goes through my head is. "Oh that girl is pretty cute, I wish I wasn't such a ***** about approaching girls." I normally feel like they just wouldn't be interested, but idk? Don't go out with friends much to get that kind of feedback.

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  2. justkillme111 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by justkillme111 Sep 7th, 2012 at 8:01PM

    They probably think they are out of your league, I find it difficult to approach girls that I think might reject me. You should try being friendly with them and if they seem interested then make the first move.

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  3. cooney55 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by cooney55 Sep 7th, 2012 at 8:01PM

    You're pretty, dear.. it'll happen, trust me. You're just getting started, and there's no harm or shame in taking your time.

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  4. GoodgirlsclubGodsent - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by GoodgirlsclubGodsent Sep 7th, 2012 at 7:55PM

    Cuz u hide inside your house
    Scared to getnhacked when u go outside
    Creepy

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  5. Fuzzies - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Fuzzies Sep 7th, 2012 at 7:56PM

    I don't get what you're saying. Can you explain it?

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  6. starryknight1999 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by starryknight1999 Sep 7th, 2012 at 7:54PM

    if u go 2 college, then u can make the first move...i'm actually pretty shy and i appreciate when a woman says she's interested....most guys, including myself, hate rejection...lol

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