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Why don't guys ever want a relationship with me?

I just don't understand how all of my other girl friends have been in a serious relationship and i haven't. And they are all clingy, loud, and at time pshycho(ish)...then theres me, im laid back, not clingy, and not loud but no guys ever like me...why do you think that is?



what am i doing wrong?

someone asked if i am fat or ugly. Im relatively average looking...i suppose. I think im ugly (but what teenage girl doesn't?) and im not fat im very petite
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 11:00AM
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!

You have plenty of time to find LOVE!

Worry about school first!....You never know who will be

around the Corner!
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 11:03PM
i have no idea but i can tell you that guys are very shallow, oh and by the way people i dont know what she looks like so i am not judging her :) maybe they think you dont have an interest
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 5:30AM
The right person will see your qualities one day and respect you for who you are. Just be patient.
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 4:32PM
I doubt that no boy likes you. Keep yourself from thinking that way as it is counterproductive. Many boys are hesitant, thanks to fear of failure or rejection, to get closer to girls, which includes you. Teenage boys on average have not kept up with their contemporary girls in the maturity category. They also have other distractions. I know on TV and according to parents nostalgia everyone dates in HS. The reality is that not everyone dates in HS, which is a blessing in disguise. The more you focus on school and are not distracted by dating the better your future is, even with adult relationships. Dating in HS does not prepare you better for life. There are boys attracted to you, just none have deemed themselves worthy or guarenteed of your 'yes'. Lastly some guys want to be sought after and have a girl do stuff for them (be clingy). They are not right or wrong, just not for you.........Good Luk and you are way too young to worry, enjoy your youth.......
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 11:28AM
the first question i have for you is how old are you? i'm guessing you're about 16/17 right? well let me tell you something since you said that you're average and skinny...

first off, you're probably too quiet and guys don't even notice you. you have to make it known that you're available and looking! you can do this in many different ways, but i would just recommend that you flirt with guys and try not to be weird.

second, keep in mind that the clothes you wear can play a big part in finding a relationship. i mean, if you wear jeans and a hoodie every single day no one is going to want to date you! don't get me wrong, i'm not telling you to dress like a prostitute, but a little leg goes a long way.

go tanning, wear makeup, dress up sometimes, BE CONFIDENT, and for the love of god, don't be one of those weird people that don't know that they're weird. it makes things awkward for anyone that talks to you...

since i don't know you, i don't know how well these things will work for you. But if there's any piece of advice that i'd like you to take away from this it's this... have confidence in yourself because if you don't like you, no one else will either.

I HOPE THIS HELPED!! =D
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 5:31AM
teenage years are stupid, just like teenage guys. don't worry, relationships will come.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 11:28AM
meh, don't worry about it yet. boys your age CRAVE attention (and action!)...and your loud friends give it to them (in all senses of that phrase lol) don't sell yourself short. your friends may not have the great relationships you think they do...or they may go through them so fast you can barely keep up...not a good thing.

so just be you...be confident in who you are, don't stress about being in a relationship...that, in itself, can be really stressful and you could lose focus on school, etc. stress is rarely ever a good thing lol
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 11:29AM
first you are very young to freak!!!!
second maybe you focus too much on relationship
a good friendship with a "normal" bloke could be a start...
If you were older i would say..stop bitching,moaning,winching..enjoy every day
and smile at people
I WANA HAVE A RELATIONSHIP NOW!!!!coz all others..
u will get ur fair share of "this dramas!!!!"
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 4:10PM
Are you fat or ugly? Those are the only reasons I can think of.
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 4:10PM
******* are the only one that get laid...
So, i am afraid but if u want some action, you've got to join the club
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 4:14PM
You may be too laid back so that guys don't think you want to be in a relationship with them. Or, maybe you are either very smart or very beautiful and you consequently intimidate them.

Do you always wait for a guy to ask you out? That can be a problem as well. Sometimes you have to be the one to pursue the relationship.
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 4:19PM
Don't try so hard sweetie. Just let nature take its course. Keep your panties on, and stay strong. Don't give up the goods until you know for sure that he really loves you. Preferably marriage.
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 4:31PM
when's the last time you took a shower or used deodorant?.......kiddin' ya. are you the shy type?...if so that can explain alot. by the way, just be yourself and don't worry about how your friends are acting. you'll find the right guy soon enough. :)
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 5:05PM
Maybe because you block us out from your profile so we can't get to know you!!!!!!
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 5:46PM
I have to sit with you and talk about you . then I can tell you why , because I am a boy and I know what boys usualy looking for :)
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 6:00PM
Its the stache...
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Posted Sep 24th, 2009 at 11:29PM
your too young for a relationship...that's why it is not happening...it's not meant to be.
Consider yourself VERY lucky.
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Posted Sep 27th, 2009 at 5:30AM
Without a pic it is difficult to say, but the fact that you are petite is enough or me to want you!
It is a pity I am too old for you!
Don't worry, the right person wll come along in time!
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