Because they are either keeping the back door open while persuing the greener grass, or they cant handle the reaction , because that means they are going to be asked questions, which they dont want to answer or own up to, or, they want to avoid you, so you get the message,and then dump them, then they dont look like the bad guy, they are just arseholes with the lack of integrity to face the music.
They are wimps but console themselves with the idea that they dont want to hurt us.
We spend the first part of our lives trying to get in the pants of every girl we meet, so when it comes to saying "No Thanks" we have no practice at all and blow it.<br />
How's the weather up there?
They simply dont want to break ur little heart :) they would look like ******** if they just threw rejection in ur face<br />
its always good not to tell them that you cant be bothered , that way you can keep them for a "reserve" shag if the one you want ever "stays in to do her hair " or has "fallen to the communists".
They can't be honest.
mannn i dont know why they do that!! I nag boys all the time in the hope they will man-up and say hey Go away!! or something siml=ilar lol boys are wierd
simple answer is it is just simpler that way. guys don't want confrontations. Can really explain why. or the reason may just be to painful, would a girl really like to here You suck in bed. I can't stand the way you lauch. I hate your stupid friends, your stupid looks. I just wanted to shag you not have a relationship. do I need to go on. <br />
the fact is the truth hurts, guess thats not so simple after all. how about I'm just stupid what was I thinking when I hooked up with U anyway.
Most females won't just accept "I don't want to be bothered." There has to be follow up questions which guys don't want to deal with. Actually, not only do we not want to deal with it, we may not have answers to those questions.
So avoid them who the hell cares
Guys (broadly speaking) don't do "feelings" very well. And they certainly dont want to cope with your emotionally outbursts (no matter how much they deserve it) when they dump you. So they do just about anything to avoid it. I'm sure there is a "girl dropping" service somewhere, where a guy can give a the details of a girl he want s to be rid of and have a professional guy (or girl) do the dumping for him. If there isn't its a goldmine waiting to be discovered.
hmmm they might like the attention on the side, just like some girls..
Rather than the stereotypically brilliant, worn-out-cliche excuse that "guys don't express feelings well", we can utilize our brains to come up with a new multi-scenario complex, as it's really a good question, and there's some perfectly coherent reasons why:<br />
1) they might need them someday just to convince their friends they're not gay.<br />
2) some females don't react well to "go away"<br />
3) usually a myriad complex of psychological reasons relating to difficulties with Oedipus complex that no one here really wants to read, so<br />
4) just assume they're gay and fu.ck em.<br />
I present Reason 4 as a counter-argument to that stunning bit of logic about males not being able to express feelings. Let the battle of wits begin.
guys don't like discussing feelings
its possible that we dont wanna hurt your feelings by saying.. "hey, i dont ever wanna see you again"