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I keep expecting him to turn away, but all he does is keep being kind, keep talking to me... Does he know? Is he just feeling sorry for me, not wanting to hurt me? I wish I knew...
lonelyheart807 lonelyheart807 41-45, F 11 Answers Dec 4, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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You sound like the old me. Some people actually love you for YOU. Be thankful and kind to him. If you keep thinking that way you're going to take him for granted. You can only push a person away so far. Listen to your intuition

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Trust me...I will never take him for granted. He makes my heart sing...

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Maybe, just maybe he really loves you, and maybe, just maybe you really deserve it. :)

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you might try ASKING HIM!!!!!!

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Way too shy...

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get over it! why are you so shy? why would he feel sorry for you?

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Because I'm pathetically in need of a good friend...

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man, I'll be your friend- what makes you so pathetic?

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I meant how much I need a friend...

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Maybe hes an alien and your part of an intergalactic breeding program. Do you have... strange dreams? o.O (hears X-Files music playing) just kidding ;)

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Maybe he is trying not to hurt you. You ever think he does have some feelings for you? Maybe just enough so he wants to be there for you and make you smile, or at the least not hurt as much as you do.

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He would be the first person in my life to do that...

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You must be going for teh "bad boy" type if that is all you get.

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I'm not...but I've had my share of hurtful people...

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You need to find a good person and maybe get laid. You need someone that will care for you and want you to be happy and comfortable. I can be the person who will try to make you happy, but I think I am to young for you. lol

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Thanks...

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Lol!

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My best wishes for you. If you like you can vent to me anytime. I am sometimes good at advice when I am not depressed.

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could be he really likes you and enjoys your company :) My advice is to not create a self-fulfilling prophecy here...just take it for what it is and enjoy it.

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I know this intuitively, but my psyche keeps waiting for everything to go wrong...

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sometimes it's hard not to expect the worst when that's all you're used to. Hugs :)

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Thanks...I am trying to overcome this...

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Maybe he loves you. It's possible you know :).

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It's possible, but not probable...sigh!

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Aww, don't be so pessimistic! Be positive and hope for the best :).

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I've been hurt too many times to know how to do that...

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I'm sorry, I know it's hard to let someone in when you've been hurt, but it seems like you need to open up to someone :).

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I do...but I'm no good at that sort of thing...

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Neither am I, but if you ever need to, I'll listen :) (or read hahaha).

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Sometimes you have to trust that he knows what he wants.

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He doesn't want me...I know that.

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If you want him maybe it's time you were more forward. It might make him see you in a new light. Nothing ventured... (Or am I not getting this?)

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I have no courage with this sort of thing...

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I know how you feel. I used to be very insecure and worry if I came across as a fraud or some such undesirable label. I hope you can work it out.

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Thanks...

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Why should he do that?

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he sounds clingly

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He's not...didn't mean to make it sound that way. He just always has time for me...

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