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Why have I never been physically intimate with someone I felt emotionally connected to or physically attracted to?

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Asked By: blindbob 26-30  8 months ago

I've had four life partners. (by the way, I'm female.) Do you think something's wrong with me?

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  1. jeanemae - 26-30 years old

    Posted by jeanemae Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:37PM

    Why were you intimate with people you weren't attracted to? Why would you continue dating them long enough to be considered life partners if you didn't connect with them or find them attractive?

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  2. blindbob - 26-30 years old

    Reply by blindbob Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:41PM

    sorry, i meant the number of partners in my lifetime. I wanted to clarify that I'm not like a nympho or something. All of these guys were only ok to me. I wasn't hot for any of them, just horny, and the timing worked out in their favor.

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  3. jeanemae - 26-30 years old

    Reply by jeanemae Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:47PM

    well, if you felt more then you'd probably still be with them. That's kinda how looking for someone compatible works...you stop when you find someone. Perhaps you need to put yourself out there more so you might be able to meet someone you do like. Join some organizations, internet dating, a church or something and meet and date more people. 4 isn't very many..and you don't need to sleep with them that's not what I'm saying. Just get to know more people. I wouldn't assume something is wrong with you.

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  4. kessie - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by kessie Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:36PM

    you said........... BTW, I've had four life partners............ had means in the past so they obviously weren't "life partners"

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  5. blindbob - 26-30 years old

    Reply by blindbob Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:42PM

    i meant lifetime partners. i hope that clears things up.

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  6. kessie - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by kessie Oct 13th, 2012 at 12:13AM

    to me lifetime means till one of you die, have four people died on you?

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  7. AtleastImHonest - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by AtleastImHonest Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:34PM

    Beats me... I've only done it a couple of times myself.

    I **** em... but only intimate with a select few, the ones I deem worthy and I actually respect I suppose.

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  8. blindbob - 26-30 years old

    Reply by blindbob Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    yeah, i just roll over and go to sleep after. but one guy, i actually felt bad because I realized that it meant a lot to him.

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  9. Katanakat - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Katanakat Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:33PM

    Maybe you're afraid.

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  10. blindbob - 26-30 years old

    Reply by blindbob Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:35PM

    afraid of what?

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  11. Katanakat - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by Katanakat Oct 12th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    Opening yourself up to someone you truly care about. It can be a scary thing...trust. Then again, maybe you just haven't met the right one yet.

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