Why have I stayed with a cheater?
So my husband cheats on me, we separate, he finds God.... And we live happily ever after. NOT! I believed him and witnessed all of his changes. Of coarse my worst nightmare is coming back to life. The moodiness, personal attacks, and just overall rude and mean. He cheated in 2007, so I thought things were working well. He has been acting weird since October. So today I wanted to check out his new phone, and well you guessed it, text messages about chasing some girl, she finally opened up to him.... I WANT TO BARF! So this is an emotional affair as far as I can tell. Playing nice till I get proof! I am not going to be sweet talked again. Of coarse I before for: my ego, my kids and lets face it, financial security. Don't cuss me out, there was some love left in my very broken heart. I make good money as a hair stylist, just didn't have the balls to end it and throw my kids dad out. Okay now what to do? I go to school for nursing during the night. Should I put spy software on his phone?