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Why is it everything I ran from as a kid I now love in sex play?

I was beaten badly, raped, molested, called a whore and slut, picked up off the ground by nothing but my hair. All these things are in some way figured into my sex life. I love it all. Why?? Is it normal?

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multiple	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 4:06AM It's normal, in the sense that very many experience that what they ran away from as kids they love in their adult sex life. While psyckologists just love to make a connection between the two as a "per definition", there are lots and lots of other people who didn't experience the things other ran away from, but still love it in their adult sex life - making the "per definition" connection much less likely. What's more likely is, that it is something that would've become a part of the sex life no matter what. Rated: +2Vote for this!
RedWirenut	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 4:06AM It's part of your arousal template, you associate it with sex now. I thought this was going to be a joke question about vegetables you refused as a child Rated: +2Vote for this!
cvkodiak	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 4:08AM Your brain is more developed than you were as a kid or teenager. During those years, you mind is constantly working and modifying itself. But it also comes that the things you ran away from were things that you yourself did not choose to happen to you. Some people enjoy rough sex simulating rape. But most of those people, if they were actually raped would not enjoy it. There is comfort in you choosing for it to happen to you, and pleasure to add to that. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Duckgirl	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 4:08AM It could be your mind is taking control of it by liking it. Rated: +2Vote for this!
caseycb	Posted Aug 28th, 2009 at 11:20AM I have no idea why, but I would say that it isn't normal. I actually hope you're kidding Rated: +1Vote for this!

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