No can make you feel any way without your permission. You get to decide who plays a role in your life. Sometimes people "lower their standards" because they don't want to be alone. Don't settle for less than you deserve!
100% agree.. i think that is problem with a lot of people.
This is what I've been asking too...it seems like once you finally find someone amazing,they don't adore you back,yet the ones who are totally not your type and don't treat you well keep coming along like a check-out line at Walmart.All I need is just ONE person.It shouldn't be that difficult.
We tend to be drawn towards people when we witness the little things they do, the minor details about them. We want them to notice us so we don't realise until it has hurt us so severely, that they are vile and only contact people when it best suits them. It's infuriating, and it's just one of those things about life; the people who love us for us, are all around us and usually we are blind to it because we are looking elsewhere, so the people who we would otherwise adore and enjoy being with are overlooked. It's a vicious cycle. The person looking to another is overshadowed, yet the one who is overshadowed has another person who adores them wholeheartedly. Just looking in the wrong places.
It isn't hard...<br />
I am in love with this lady.. i have .. to my knowledge, treated her like a goddess..<br />
It is just my own personal opinion, but i think LOTS of people have low standards when it comes to finding someone... really... maybe it is just fear of loneliness or something.. so they just grab whoever they can find...<br />
I am unwilling to lower my own standard... I was recently told off by some dude that my own personal standard of dressing was like probably ... to unique.. or too... high a standard to attract a partner.... so I am supposed to look sloppy to attract a person????<br />
WHAT THE HELLL????!!!!!
Easy...you are looking for the wrong things....you are attracted to ********....stop trying to get a boyfriend that LOOKS good...look for one that TREATS you good (well). You are probably after looks....why? As an engineer...you are optimizing on the wrong parameter.
Watch how he or she treats other before you become a couple. If their disrespectful to others chances are they will be to you sooner or later. But sometimes you can't really tell until you really know them.
pick well at the outset.. but I think people do not choose well.. they tend to choose people who are "like them"...
Hey if this notion is true.. then if your life is in a bad state I would suggest not choosing anyone at all... cos if they are "like you" and your life is a mess... think what you are getting yourself into.
you have to let them know you won't stand for being treated bad, then give the bad ones the boot.
I am still looking.
lol.. but how do u treat others ... the way u want others to treat you?
Why does the sun come up? Or are the stars just pin holes in the curtain of night, who knows? What I do know is that because you were born different, men will fear you... try to drive you away like the people of your village
i see but dont understand why such a nice fellow like you would find it hard to find same minded person ? any way good luck ..
this has been a concern of mine for the longest while too
i love you,luvdrunk
I don't know, but it's seems like we spend a lifetime looking for this don't we?
I adore you
take the bull by the horns.....my daughter did .....& does waaaaaay better than me ;-)